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33 M Finland, MN

I’m looking for

  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 24–39
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 2:38pm
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Other, and laughing about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Quirky, gender-queer, somewhat introverted nature nerd living in the woods on the north shore of Lake Superior. Masculine body, feminine heart.

I'm attracted to gender-variant women most of the time, but I'm not exactly straight, and remain open to relationships in all their possibilities if the chemistry is right.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living in the woods, doing forestry projects, being a small business owner, and building a house.
Working on personal growth.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Growing a beard.

Identifying plants and trees, measuring trees, mapping forests, and analyzing field data - anything that combines my love of the woods, natural science, and computers. I'm also decent at building stuff.

Some claim I'm a decent dancer - but that is debatable.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My beard, long hair and height. I mean, come on!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I've never been that good at having favorite books or movies - its hard to choose with so many good stories out there.

As for music, I like GOOD music, regardless of genre.
I am particularly partial to certain kinds of metal, punk, and hardcore, but I also like jazz, Irish, hip hop, soul, blues, classic country, experimental chamber music, etc. I also have a thing for Portishead.

I love Vietnamese food. LOVE IT. And wild rice and white fish. And maple syrup. And authentic Mexican, and... oh, I better stop now. I'm making myself hungry.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Clean Air
2) Clean Water
3) Good Food
4) Friends
5) Trees and plants
6) Learnin'
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Local, sustainable, community-oriented economic development.
Geeky botany and forestry related topics.
Gender and sexuality.
Pre-Christian European spiritual traditions.
Fighting THE MAN.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Enjoying a quiet night at home, or hanging out with a few good friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Really? We've only just met.

(Well, if you really want to know, I was recently diagnosed with adult ADD, and getting on good medication has really helped.)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
... you like the outdoors, botany, rural living, and/or traditional skills; are gender-variant yourself; want to talk culture or politics; or, preferably, you're a gender-queer woman interested in rural living, and you want to build me some book shelves or something similarly handy to win my heart.

Don't let the beard scare you. Beneath lies a sensitive heart.