Live in a happy, open polyamorous relationship and not looking to
change my life or anyone else's. Looking for friends, friends with
benefits, lovers, kinksters, play partners, who are sexually
intelligent and imaginative.
I am funny and smart and curious about the world. I am
professionally employed, postgraduate education, well travelled and
all that sort of stuff. Would be good if you were too. If you lived
north of the Yarra and could host I'd like that too.
Some of the things I find attractive are: left-handers, extroverts
or ambiverts, parents, nerds (especially word nerds), leftish,
greenish, bookish, toppish, quirky, passionate, conversationalists,
artists, academics, policy wonks, shambolic men and a whole lot
What I’m doing with my life
Exploring my sexuality, living a good life, trying not to breathe
I’m really good at
Sex. I have been post domestic since Nov 2009 and had an empty nest
The first things people usually notice about me
That I am very quiet. The surface deceives.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I have a hundred books to read before I die. Currently reading
Lolita. I have a bit of a weakness for cowboy gothic and micro
My musical development arrested in the early 80s and I would love
to be introduced to something more contemporary.
Favourite film is Blade Runner and consider everyone a replicant
until proved otherwise.
The six things I could never do without
My life partner
The family I have created for myself
Lots of sex
A regular income
Mental health days
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Classical social theory
Why people don't whistle so much these days
Being part of the solution e.g. leaving the car at home
On a typical Friday night I am
Letting my brain take a softer ride
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have just answered dozens of questions about my sexual
proclivities - it's all there
You should message me if
You are not wanting me to be involved in a deception
You've flunked the monogamy test
Some of what I have written appeals.