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25 Oakland, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • All who like bi men
  • Ages 19–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

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6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has dogs

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My self-summary
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One thing i should say up front is that im polyamorous, and that im interested in persuing intimate and non-intimate relationships of all sorts.
Im a deep thinker who can get lost following so many trains of thought. I'm compassionate and love to give.I hate consumerism, much of dominant culture, and intolerant assholes! I love dumpstering, building, and learning from others.Really I'm a born lover but there are just too many things in this world to hate.

Oh and queer not bi
What I’m doing with my life
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To be honest im a bit aimless right now. Im exploring the world and learning, but i havent figured out where i fit in! I am searching for a lifestyle that would support the active dismantling of sexism, homophobia, racism, and capitalism. Right now I am into living communally, playing music, harvesting/learning about medicinal herbs, reading(keeping up with whats going on in the world, critiques of the status quo, and lately scifi nerding out), and taking my dog out into the woods.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I've got an intermediate grasp on plant medicine, I'm good with dogs-I am a dog walker and assistant dog trainer. Im a decent musician, strings and whistling are what im best at. Im more of a jack of all trades
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I spose its my hair, no gettin past it, that or my chest tattoo creeping up my neck.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: like i said earlier ive been on a scifi binge, read the dune series, Woman on the Edge of Time-Marge Piercy, One Hundred Years of Solitude-Marquez, CosmiComics-Italo Calvino, and the xenogenesis series-Octavia butler to name a few

Music: little walter, robert johnson, howlin wolf, duke ellington, miles davis, tom waits, the cramps, crass, the dicks, screamin jay hawkins, woody guthrie, cab calloway
Blues, punk, jazz, folk, instrumentals of all genre. I love any music with soul.

Movies: dead man, le samourai, LOTR, spirited away, love watching movies, too many to recount but you can get an idea from these. One thing im terrible at is remembering actor's names. While discussing actors or pop culture you can almost see them flying over my head.

Shows: no t.v. hate commercials and most of it has shitty content anyways!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My dog, Beaulah
An instrument of some sort (they have gotten me through some rough times)
Good books
Good friends/a sense of community
Well thats five...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The fucked up state of the world and this country

How I keep finding my friends on here in the 90th percentiles, the inbreeding!

Are there any cookies left? Nope... i ate them all...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Its a toss up: Could be out and about with friends or in my room playing music or reading
You should message me if
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-you know about plants and hebal medicine or want to learn

-you know how to cook and would share your knowledge with me

-you feel like you dont fit in here nor there

-if you are too nervous to