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52 M Oakland, CA

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 35–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:16pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Buddhism, but not too serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
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My self-summary
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Okay...artsy yet masculine, well-rounded to a fault, visually oriented, can hold a conversation, can be charming, plagued by middle kid and cool kid syndrome...but perhaps not to the stereotype.

Really likes goofing off and adventure (big and small). I can do the "life of the party" thing or go hide in my's just depends.

I'm loyal, hard working, lazy.

Not weird enough for art school yet not straight-laced enough for design studio. I've done both, did some very nice stuff...but not me.

I'm generally smart but I'm a guy so I'm dumb as well...and yes sometimes I do think with my ding dong but since I've mastered its use, not so much any longer.

The most honest thing said by someone else in this regard, "he might not get it the first or second time but he will eventually get it, usually pretty quick but not always."
What I’m doing with my life
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Writing and taking care of oldsters. I have a few projects that I want to finish by the end of the year; one for fun, one for enterprise.
I’m really good at
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Goofing off, visual stuff, writing, design, food, fun, physical stuff.

I'm also good at schmoozing but only when I don't really care. If there's a reason or a deal on the line, not so much. Use to get assigned to entertain mucky-mucks for jobs...then I realized it was work.
The first things people usually notice about me
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hair, big arms...ballet dancer butt
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Murakami, Veep, Portlandia, British TV. I like food and can cook.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I try and not think too much. You know, that Buddhist stuff about a clear open mind. Mostly it's unproductive and second guessing is a good way to make yourself neurotic.

There is one thing I do think about related to not thinking: how to disassociate societal concepts on happiness, success and status from career, job, material...i.e., convention. It's really not much of a trick. You just sorta have to say f*ck it...and live accordingly.
You should message me if
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If you'd actually like to get to know someone, develop some rapport, you know that old fashion crap. I find if you actually like a person, it's a good start.

You're a progressive, socialist, social democrat or lefty...or lean that way.

Perhaps you're into art or creative stuff, into fun and can enjoy yourself...or close enough. Or you're wholesome and a bit wild...which sorta mirrors me.

The usual reasons; simpatico, chemistry, desire, fun.