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NotThatSteve

41 San Francisco, CA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
May 4
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Buddhism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Dropped out of university
Job
Technology
Income
Rather not say
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Dislikes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
"Before I learned how to talk, I forgot what to say" -N. Young.
What I’m doing with my life
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Enriching lives. Exploring the city. Exploring myself. Chicago transplant and proud of it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Trivia (particularly of the musical variety). Making movies. Sleeping in. Rocking out (played guitar since I was 14). Brunch. Listening. Writing with words. Writing with light.
The first things people usually notice about me
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"Anybody ever tell you 'you sound like Seth Rogen?"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Literary faves: Hunter Thompson, Nelson Algren, Studs Terkel. Lots of Non-Fiction. David Sedaris. Anthony Bourdain.

Movies: Having gone to film school, I'm kind of a film snob. Scorsese. Coppola. Charlie Kaufman/Spike Jonze. Lebowski. Fellini. Kubrick. Hitchcock. Kurasawa. I'll watch most anything, but will opt-out at 40 minutes if I'm not engaged.

The Larry Sanders Show is pretty much the greatest show of all time. Anything well-written.

Music is my first love: Beastie Boys. Beatles. Zeppelin. The Who. Dylan. Miles Davis. Zappa. Sinatra. Robert Johnson. Wilco. Hank Williams Sr. Bjork. Pearl Jam. Phish. Los Lobos. Beck. Saw Phish 9 times last year, won't apologize. But will say that's an unusually active year. Grateful Dead!

My first real job was working as a producer at Chicago's Classic Rock radio station. Met a bunch of fun people and have lots of great stories. I love all music, but am pretty much a prisoner of Rock & Roll.

Food? Thai, Korean, Italian, Mexican. Grilled Cheese sandwiches. Also, I am the King of Brunch.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music. iPhone. Guitar. Camera. Computer. Laughter.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
metacognition.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Just as likely to be at work, out on the town, or enjoying a night in. It doesn't really matter when you live *every* night like it's Friday night!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I've been accused of transmitting the Kavorka. I think it's my Latvian heritage.
You should message me if
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You appreciate laughter, life, good music and art.