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NotUrEvryDay

25 F Ballwin, MO

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:21am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Atheism, and very serious about it
Sign
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Please, no one-line messages or one word like "Hey." I will put in as much effort as you did to reply, if that. If you can't think of something interesting to say after reading my lengthy novel here, then we shouldn't be talking anyway.

Looking for someone who makes me laugh and can hold great conversations. Great conversations can be deep, meaningful, and/or intelligent, or they can be about something completely ridiculous and pointless, as long as we’re both having fun. I’d like someone who relates to me and understands me. Someone whom I can learn from (and vice versa), helps me reach my goals, and provides inspiration for self-improvement. About me:

-I’m sarcastic, blunt, and sometimes obnoxiously fun. I’m not easily offended. It’s not always easy to tell when I’m joking, so I can offend people when I mean nothing by it. I enjoy dark, raunchy, and controversial humor. I enjoy practical jokes, and I don't always abide by the rules if I disagree. I like discussing controversial subjects – an intelligent conversation is important. Most subjects are openly on the table, whenever. Feel free to ask. However, I do know when it’s appropriate to make a good impression and hold back.

- Openness and honesty. When it comes to a partner, communication and understanding are essential. There must be a great connection, built by time spent together and conversation. I’m the type of person to address issues when I notice them to see if they can be resolved. I prefer not to play guessing games.

- I love traveling, whether it's a big city or a national park. I'd like to explore many of our nation’s parks, esp. out west. I enjoy hiking and I’d like to try backpacking. A camping and floating trip always makes for a nice weekend.

- I exercise regularly and eat healthy as much as possible, but I’m not a complete nut about it. Usual exercise includes walks, hikes, gym, and biking. Open to trying most outdoor actitives.

- They say not to discuss politics and religion , so I don’t with most. But you should know I’m atheist, and I hold great distaste for organized religion. It doesn’t make sense, and I’m a logical person. I’m pro-choice. I’m pro 2nd amendment and enjoy target shooting. I try to stay UTD on politics and current events.

- Socially, I prefer laid back atmospheres to dance floors and loud bars. I will go, but not often, and very rarely do I drink excessively. If it happens, it happens, but trying a few beers or wines is more my style. I enjoy trying new restaurants with ethnic cuisines. I often enjoy an evening of staying in, cooking, maybe games, and watching movies with a special person or just friends. I like exploring the area, finding new places. I like driving around with no plans in mind, seeing where the day or night takes us. Some things should be planned, but some of the best times are spontaneous.

- Overall, I think I’m open minded. I enjoy hearing different viewpoints, and as a friend, I am pretty accepting of views different than my own. As a partner however, I prefer someone with views similar to my own. That said, on occasion it can be a good time to poke fun at stereotypes and go people watching!

If you've made it through my novel, don't let my blunt directness scare you! Once I get to know and like you, I am a pretty affectionate, compassionate person. I’m certainly passionate about several things, but overall I am pretty laid back in most settings and don’t let many things anger me. I try to have fun and enjoy life, big things and small things alike.
What I’m doing with my life
Learning the ropes at a new job which is interesting rather than just a job. I'd like to start grad school sometime next year.
I’m really good at
- Being straight forward and open
- Wasting time
- Listening to podcasts
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: recently I've read Freakonomics and Touching a Nerve: The Self as Brain. I like books about neurology, history/social history, drugs, and religion (let's make that anti-religion). Used to read Stephen King for fiction. Clockwork Orange was good. Currently reading about American house styles.

Movies and shows: Something funny or something I can learn from. I like documentaries. I occasionally enjoy stand up. Jim Gaffigan and Louis C.K. crack me up.

Podcasts/radio: Woody and Rizz. NPR: Diane Rehm, On Point, Fresh Air. Freakonomics

Music: rock from the 1960's - present. Not whiny emo. Nor hipster garbage. Actual rock. Some electronic. I can tolerate some older rap, but I despise most country. It's just pop with a twang, and I don't care for pop. Doors, Led Zeppelin, Beatles, Offspring, Soundgarden, STP are some favorites.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
-My career
-Future vacations
-New places to explore around St. Louis
-Restaurants I haven't tried
-Political issues that drive me insane, esp. with how religion and politics are entertwined
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm not one to rush into a relationship. I like to take things slowly. And I'm not the best with emotions at first. So if you have any questions about how I feel, please ask!
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 24–31
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For short-term dating
You should message me if
1.) You share my distaste for religion and you don't claim to be of some particular religion.
2.) Health and exercise are goals and you're decently in shape.
3.) You don't have or want kids.
4.) You have interesting things to say about yourself and can hold a conversation.
5.) You're motivated and have goals in life.
6.) You find honesty is almost always the best policy with partner. You aren't afraid to be yourself and communicate openly.
7.) You like adventure and traveling.
8.) You're willing to try new things -including foods and activities.
9.) You think there are better things to do than watching sports on tv.
10.) You can find humor in anything, even the most controversial and offensive subjects.