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34 M Wallingford, CT

My Details

Last Online
Jul 26
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from law school
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I am realizing that I've taken a somewhat unorthodox path through life so far. I graduated with a degree when jobs were available, and took a minimum wage job because I wanted to learn woodworking. I banked a couple grand and contemplated getting a dog and driving across the country, but I bought a house instead. After seven years of woodworking and completely remodeling my modest house, I had the skills to set out on my own and contemplated starting my own business, but I went to law school instead. Then I got a dog. So now I have a dog and a house and good job.
What I’m doing with my life
Not smoking cigarrettes and saying yes. I recently ended my long term relationship with cigarettes, and I am filling my time with anything else -- hiking, swimming, reading, walking, food shopping, cooking, pulling weeds, projects around the house, cleaning...oh, and working. That has led me to say yes to more things when people ask me if I want to do/try something new.
I’m really good at
Keeping things in perspective. When things don't go as planned I don't fly off the handle or anything -- it'll all work out. Sure I'll vent about annoying things like anyone else, but I'm pretty good at either letting them go or directing my energy to change them.
The first things people usually notice about me
I don't know..I think I'm a generally unintimidating person who approaches people with kidness and tries to treat people with respect. If I'm feeling confident I'd answer that I'm handsome. If I'm feeling less confident, I'd answer that I'm balding.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I read more non-fiction than fiction. The New York Times and The New Yorker are staples. I'd like to say I read The Economist, but I recently cancelled my subscription because I couldn't keep up. I do enjoy a good novel, but I between work and news, fiction is not usually my go to unless I'm on a plane or the beach.

I listen to all sorts of music, and if you are someone who is always looking for something new that's a huge plus -- if you've got good new stuff you can control the radio any day. I listen to a lot of talk too- NPR, This American Life, RadioLab, etc.

For some reason I've had a working mental list of my five favorite movies for the past 2 decades. There is some turnover, but currently I'd have to go with: The Godfather I and II (I count this as personal loophole), Baraka, Waking Ned Divine, The Big Lebowski, This is Spinal Tap

TV is mostly netflix (arrested development, movies/documentaries), HBOGO (silicon valley, the wire) and live sports (baseball, soccer). And food is anything really. I think I could be happy eating sushi everyday. I like trying new restaurants.
The six things I could never do without
I am adaptable, so nothing. Though not brushing your teeth is gross, so I'll include a toothbrush. And I'm a big fan of my pup, so he's in. Some sort of eye correction is necessary too. I guess money has to be in there; though I'm not as driven by that as most having no money would be pretty limiting. Well, that's 4. If you have any suggestions for the last two spots let me know...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where to go on vacation. I like my day to day, but vacation is better. In the two years I've been to Bermuda, Mexico, Colorado, Maine, and New Orleans. I'm going back to CO this fall, but I think a big overseas trip may be in order soon...

And how I can give some limited time back in the most effective way
On a typical Friday night I am
Either out with some friends or home with the dog cooking dinner and watching a movie
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You have some ideas of things we can do besides smoke cigarettes, you think you know how I can finish my "6 things" list, or you have some music suggestions. Or if you just want to say hi -- I know an intro note can be awkward, so hi is fine. I don't have the plus membership, so hi is the only way I'll know if you may be interested.