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34 M Wallingford, CT

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Last Online
Today – 10:52am
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Used up
Strictly anything
Trying to quit
Atheism, and laughing about it
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from law school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm not Dick Cheney, and I wouldn't trade that for anything.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Probably similar to what you're doing- I go to a place every weekday for a bunch of hours that sends me a paycheck; think about, buy and cook food; surf the net; do projects to improve the stuff I own; and hang with friends and family.

That's about 90%. The other 10 is the wildcard...road trip or a flight? A hike and sit with the pup (preferably near water)? A good book/movie/show/podcast? A bike ride? A play/sporting event/museum? I'm down for whatever...the 10% is pretty important. Try to make the most of it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Building things that won't fall apart when the s hits the f
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm white. I think most people process another's race right off the bat...even if it's subconscious. This is probably less true for folks who live in integrated communities....I don't know, there is more to say about this than a silly blurb
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love binge watching netflix or HBOGO (the wire, orange is the new black, curb, walking dead, etc), reading non fiction (ny times, New Yorker, biographies), and listening to podcasts (this American life, radio lab, wait wait). I'll watch a baseball/soccer/football/Uconn game.

I'd like to get into fiction more, so if you have any ideas, please share...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I kind of hate this question because even though I have some stuff, I'm a minimalist at heart. Also because I can foresee a future where these things are totally different because of circumstance. But for now, I'll say
Murphy (my dog)
Inspiration (that's pretty lame I suppose, but music, art, writing, etc are a pretty good reason to get up in the morning)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How and when I'm going to use the law for the good of others
Places I need to go
How Jimmy Fallon became so famous
The screenplay I may someday write
How to do a task more efficiently
What people will look back on in 50 years and say 'WTF were they thinking?'
The next great business idea
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Since I hit my 30s Friday night has had a mellower feel...I like to get up and kick Saturday's a** so drinks and dinner is great, but usually I'm not in for a "I hear the birds chirping and I'm still up" rager. Usually.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I sometimes get Hall and Oates songs stuck in my head. And I used to think one of them was black...I don't know who, but obviously the darker dude with the curls. I also used to think Toto was singing "I left my brains back in Africa," but now we're going way back
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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I've messaged you. It's polite to at least say, "no thanks, you're balding and mentioned Hall and Oates in your profile...loser."

Or, if you dig it (yeah, some people can say "dig it" and pull it off...I happen to be one of those guys)

Please don't message me if you're looking for someone who can bench more than his IQ or you think Ronald Reagan was the greatest living American (when he was living)