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Not_Erland

41 M Chatsworth, CA

My Details

Last Online
May 23
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on university
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
There used to be a headline here where you pick three words that describe you. These were what I came up with "I am Artistic, pleasant, and compassionate."

Artistic by nature, though non-professional, Ive been complimented by some who say I have an eclectic style.
I was born into a large Christian conservative family, but I feel so much better now that I'm not either! (Progressive liberal.)
What I’m doing with my life
Working, resting, learning, dreaming.
Dreaming of changing the order of all the above, and add traveling.
I hold off on vacationing too far off, to save money, but mostly because I don't want to go by myself.
The first things people usually notice about me
Eyes I suppose. Nobody's told me anything in years.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Oh so many movies!
Directors of some of my favourite films:
Akira Kurosawa.
Terry Gilliam.
Ridley Scott.
Michel Gondry.
Hayao Miyazaki.
Films:
Ran, Ikiru, Nights of Cabiria, THX 1138, The Dark Crystal, Ghostbusters, all the Qatsi films, Waking Life, Happy-Go-Lucky
(Horror is my least favourite type) Stop me now, I could go on for hours!

Love so many artists, from Art Nouveau to Surrealism and Pop-surrealism. Some: Max Ernst, Alphonse Mucha, Lee Bontecou, Maxfield Parrish, Chiho Aoshima, Gustav Klimt, NC Wyeth, John William Waterhouse, Zdzisław Beksiński, Norman Rockwell, Glenn Barr, Roger Dean, Mars1, Swoon, Kozyndan, etc.

Books
Fiction:
The Odyssey - H. and The Lost Books of the Odyssey - Mason
Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy series - Adams.
Childhood's End - Clarke.
The Castle - Kafka

Fictitious nonfiction
Julian - Gore Vidal (Loved this book. Love the author, will read more Vidal. Love Julian. Amazing under-appreciated historical figure)

Nonfiction: (I've been reading lots of non-fiction lately)
The Hero With a Thousand Faces, by Joseph Campbell.
The Grand Strategy of the Byzantine Empire, by Edward Luttwak.
Absolutely love all things Thomas Paine.
Homage to Catalonia, by George Orwell.
All Things Shining, - Kelly & Dreyfus
Freethinkers - Jacoby
The Alphabet Versus the Goddess - Shlain
etc.

Music:
All the great Icelandic acts out there, like, Björk, Múm, Sigor Rós, and Amiina.
Crazy electronic acts from Aphex Twin, Squarepusher, Tipsy, and the legendary Delia Derbyshire.
A little rock like The Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Pixies, My Morning Jacket, TV On the Radio, and Hendrix.
Classical like Jean Sibelius, Claude Debussy, Henryk Gorecki, Aaron Copland, and I love this one Alemdar Karamanov symph.
Most soundtrack composers. John Barry, John Williams, Danny Elfman, Phillip Glass, Jerry Goldsmith, James Horner, Ennio Morricone, Howard Shore, Toru Takemitsu, Hans Zimmer, Geinoh Yamashirogumi.... All of em really.
Honorable mentions like, Moondog, Petra Haden, Joanna Newsom, eX~Girl, Deerhoof, Portishead, Radiohead, Lustmord, Hedningarna, Kate Bush, Kings of Convenience, RJD2, Dead Can Dance, E.S. Posthumus.
And a little jazz like Blossom Dearie, Dave Brubeck, Aksak Maboul.
The six things I could never do without
Foodairwater. blah blah blah... I need music for my tinnitus. Love all the arts, but have become such a news junky the past few years. So my interest in sociology, history, and geopolitics are dominating my spare time...
Connections to the outside world?
I just don't know how to answer this question very well.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Little unimportant things to make a living, and big wonderful things, beyond me in my spare time.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am not That Guy. It will never be so.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
If you like any of the above. Open to friendships. Left leaning atheists preferred.

And since you probably wont find That Guy from your head, could you give a regular guy more than one chance? I know first impressions matter, but haven't you ever made a bad first impression before?