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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 44–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Not at all
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of university
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
How is it possible all these super amazing people are single?!

Just another messy human spirit slapped on this funky orb and seemingly making progress before my body goes to the worm buffet. Have a few strong talents. Feel I have pretty evolved social skills and can get along with most people quite decently -- I like you and I like me. Fun, energetic and responsible, I've also had to look at the dark side and make peace, hopefully while not taking myself too seriously. No big ass degrees but smart about some things and can contribute to a lot of conversations, even if it's just a one liner.

Like a lot of us, I've had a few lives and careers. Currently I have a gig with responsibility that pays the bills and allows me space and time to pursue things that feed me. I write and play music and also have a background in the theater and sketch comedy/original musical comedy. Still do children's theater every summer. Have a lot of room for volunteer work and service in my life as well as inward care. I am not defined by my job, but I have one. And I'm in a band, man.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I want to be an astronaut. Overcoming a fear of heights.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm a good eater.
The first things people usually notice about me
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He's not from here.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
For conversational purposes:

Films: Babe, Mr. Bean's Holiday, The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly, Bullitt, Duck Soup, Stuart Saves His Family, Spirited documentaries and everything's better in Black and White.

Music -- The Beach Boys, The Kinks, The Velvet Underground, old delta blues and good country, 60s/70s soul and R&B, chants, A Love Supreme, the Pastoral Symphony, "Forever Changes." Bottom-of-the-dial radio: WFMU, KCR, FUV, NYC, Underground Garage, tuning into the scratchy odd station when on the road....

Currently on the (figurative) turntable: King Sunny Ade

Books -- Huckleberry Finn, Moby Dick, Hemingway, Faulkner, Steinbeck. I used to read a lot of Bukowski, Kerouac, Hunter Thompson stuff but just can't anymore. Virtually all of what I read now is nonfiction -- history, biographies, the arts -- I can't help it.

TV -- The BBC documentary World at War. The Muppet Show. The Mentalist. Pee Wee's Playhouse. Ancient Aliens!

Art -- Van Gogh, the Impressionists, Modernism, WPA murals, Outsider Art, Cave paintings (from a safe distance), stuff on the refrigerator by kids.

Food -- Are you going to finish that?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Over 2 years ago I lost my home, car, and most of my stuff in the Hurricane Sandy affair and I lived without quite a few can't do without things for a stretch. But the corny answer is the Love and Kindness of friends and strangers (more than 6 actually) and whatever they are proxy for -- I was absolutely carried and all is well.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What the hell?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Every Friday is typical. That makes me very special here.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'll click the thumbnail just because they show cleavage.
You should message me if
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You're not as smart and important and fancy as you used to be. And you should be at least 10% enemy!

I appreciate women with a strong life force that I can stand toe to toe with. A tomboy that lives in Brooklyn and has done their homework and isn't seeking a mind reader would be a glib ideal, but far from a definitive statement. I've never been into one flavor of anything.

Lastly, for me this is a way to possibly meet someone reasonable and then go from there, not jerry rig a soulmate on short notice. We might also possibly meet in the supermarket! Or the library, though we'd get shushed. Anyway, no one is offended when there isn't a good reason to move on it. Blessings to us all.