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58 M Brooklyn, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:06pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Not at all
Other, and laughing about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Truth in advertising...I am seeing someone I met here! Shows how well my cynicism serves me. So far so good so tanks, No Way Stupid I mean OK Cupid. Ya never know. And good luck everyone.

Just your basic simple complex guy here. Fun, energetic and responsible, I've also have had to look at the dark side and make peace, hopefully while not taking myself too seriously. I do realize I am an earnest soul, but tend toward the silly early and often perhaps to compensate for my cynical bone. Athletic and a part-time nature boy, I respect all life forms though I will kill a rodent that crosses the border. Not an academic or intellectual but smart about some things and can contribute to a lot of conversations, even if it's just a one liner.

Like a lot of us, I've had a few lives and careers. Currently I have a gig with a fair amount of responsibility that pays the bills and allows me some space and time to pursue things that feed me. I write and play music and also have a background in the theater and sketch comedy/original musical comedy. Still do children's theater every summer. Have a lot of room for volunteer work and service in my life. I am not defined by my job, but I have one. And I'm in a band, man.

As for dating...not in any hurry after all we've been through but feel open minded. Meeting for coffee after a bit of communication seems reasonable to me.
What I’m doing with my life
I want to be an astronaut. Overcoming a fear of heights.
I’m really good at
Creativity in ideas and conversation (in the right company). World's best ear wiggler. Making some people laugh, particularly the little ones. Have become much better at listening! Play a far above average harmonica.

And I'm a good eater.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Films: The Maltese Falcon, Local Hero, One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, Babe, Mr. Bean's Holiday, Underground, The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly, Duck Soup, The Blues Brothers, Bullitt, Stuart Saves His Family, Spirited Away, Gran Torino -- many more! Love documentaries.

Music -- The Beach Boys, The Kinks, The Velvet Underground, old delta blues and good country, 60s/70s soul and R&B, chants, A Love Supreme, the Pastoral Symphony, Love's "Forever Changes." And on and on.

Bottom-of-the-dial radio: WFMU, KCR, FUV, NYC, Underground Garage, tuning into the scratchy odd station when on the road....

Currently on the (figurative) turntable: Big Star. Lots. Chris Bell and Alex Chilton too.

Books -- Huckleberry Finn, Moby Dick, Hemingway, Faulkner, Steinbeck. I used to read a lot of Bukowski, Kerouac, Hunter Thompson stuff but can't anymore. Virtually all of what I read now is nonfiction -- history, biographies, the arts -- I can't help it.

TV -- The BBC documentary World at War. The Muppet Show. The Mentalist. Pee Wee's Playhouse. Ancient Aliens! And yes Game of Thrones.

Food -- Are you going to finish that?
The six things I could never do without
I woke up one recent morning with no water in my apartment building and no warning. I don't need to over-explain the domino effect (starting with no coffee) but I did without about 6 things I don't wish to do without. It was lousy. Another slave of the First World....
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why McIntosh apples and Vidalia onions aren't what they used to be.
On a typical Friday night I am
Remote viewing the planet Venus.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
If you held a gun to my head I might join facebook, but you still couldn't make me watch a movie about it.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 44–58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're not as smart and important and fancy as you used to be. And you should be at least 10% enemy!

I appreciate women with a strong life force that I can stand toe to toe with. A tomboy that lives in Brooklyn and has done their homework and isn't seeking a mind reader would be a glib ideal, but far from a definitive statement. I've never been into one flavor of anything.

And if alcohol is really really important to you then we probably aren't a match, except maybe for some very short-term dating! And if your first concern is what I do for money and how much...well, good luck in your search. But you can still feel free to ask.