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58 Brooklyn, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 44–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Not at all
Other, and laughing about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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People like to say "no games" or "no drama." Well I played sports and was a Theatre major...what can I say....

Just your basic simple complex guy here. Fun, energetic and responsible, I've also have had to look at the dark side and make peace, hopefully while not taking myself too seriously. I do realize I am an earnest soul, but tend toward the silly early and often perhaps to compensate for my cynical bone. Athletic and a part-time nature boy, I respect all life forms though I will kill a rodent that crosses the border. Not an academic or intellectual but smart about some things and can contribute to a lot of conversations, even if it's just a one liner.

Like a lot of us, I've had a few lives and careers. Currently I have a gig with a fair amount of responsibility that pays the bills and allows me some space and time to pursue things that feed me. I write and play music and also have a background in the theater and sketch comedy/original musical comedy. Still do children's theater every summer. Have a lot of room for volunteer work and service in my life. I am not defined by my job, but I have one. And I'm in a band, man.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I want to be an astronaut. Overcoming a fear of heights.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Creativity in ideas and conversation (in the right company). World's best ear wiggler. Making some people laugh, particularly the little ones. Have become much better at listening! Play a far above average harmonica. Big healthy heart. And I'm a good eater.
The first things people usually notice about me
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He's not from here.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Films: The Maltese Falcon, Local Hero, One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, Babe, Mr. Bean's Holiday, Underground, The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly, Duck Soup, The Blues Brothers, Bullitt, Stuart Saves His Family, Spirited Away, Gran Torino -- many more! Love documentaries and everything's better in Black and White.

Music -- The Beach Boys, The Kinks, The Velvet Underground, old delta blues and good country, 60s/70s soul and R&B, chants, A Love Supreme, the Pastoral Symphony, Love's "Forever Changes." And on and on.

Bottom-of-the-dial radio: WFMU, KCR, FUV, NYC, Underground Garage, tuning into the scratchy odd station when on the road....

Currently on the (figurative) turntable: Jefferson Airplane -- "Hey Frederick."

Books -- Huckleberry Finn, Moby Dick, Hemingway, Faulkner, Steinbeck. I used to read a lot of Bukowski, Kerouac, Hunter Thompson stuff but can't anymore. Virtually all of what I read now is nonfiction -- history, biographies, the arts -- I can't help it.

TV -- The BBC documentary World at War. The Muppet Show. The Mentalist. Pee Wee's Playhouse. Ancient Aliens! And yes Game of Thrones.

Art -- Van Gogh, the Impressionists, Modernism, WPA murals, Outsider Art, stuff on the refrigerator by kids.

Food -- Are you going to finish that?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
2 years ago I lost my home, car, and most of my stuff in the Hurricane Sandy affair. Thank goodness for dollar stores and clean socks and underwear (100% cotton), but I lived without quite a few things for a stretch. But the corny answer is the Love and Kindness of friends and strangers (more than 6 actually) and whatever they are proxy for -- I was absolutely carried and all is well.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Do I look like my pictures?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Planning how to break out of this joint.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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If you held a gun to my head I might join facebook, but you still couldn't make me watch a movie about it.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're not as smart and important and fancy as you used to be. And you should be at least 10% enemy!

I appreciate women with a strong life force that I can stand toe to toe with. A tomboy that lives in Brooklyn and has done their homework and isn't seeking a mind reader would be a glib ideal, but far from a definitive statement. I've never been into one flavor of anything.

And if alcohol is really really important to you then we probably aren't a match, except maybe for some very short-term dating! And if your first concern is what I do for money and how much...well, good luck in your search. But you can still feel free to ask.