I am friendly, honest, and shy.
My Self-Summary
I'm a busy single (divorced) dad, who never seems to have enough
time in the day. :) But, I'm trying to get myself out there to meet
new people. I'm usually shy, until I get to know someone a bit,
unless I'm in my element. Sometimes I'm serious, but I love to make
people laugh and feel good. My sense of humor can be sarcastic,
which some may not like, but I can also just be goofy.
I work in Information Technology, and spend my day around computers
and software developers. I wear many hats at work, so describing my
actual job is not easy. Sometimes I love my work, sometimes I hate
it, depending on the hat I'm wearing at the time. :) I like problem
solving, and helping others solve their problems, so my job fits my
personality well.
My friends consider me to be nice, kind, helpful, logical, and
extremely patient. I care about my friends and am willing to lend a
sympathetic ear, or shoulder when needed. I'm a bit of a pack rat,
and though I used to be a neat freak, my kids have cured me of that
affliction. ;)
Physically, I'm an athletic guy, and I've been told I'm good
looking. I work out regularly at home, and am toned, but I'm not a
body builder. I'm not a big fan of aerobic workouts, and I tend to
avoid them whenever possible. :) In my distant past, I played
soccer for many years, ran track, rode horses, rode off-road
motorcycles, skate boarded, roller skated/bladed, ice skated, water
skied, and snow skied. These days, I don't have much time to do
those things. I need to get out more. :)
Oddly, though I enjoy playing sports, I have little interest in
watching them.
In my sparse free time, I usually try to catch up on some of my
favorite TV shows, watch a DVD movie, or waste time on the
Internet. I do like to read, though rather than novels it is
usually reading to my children at night before bed. :)
My musical tastes are eclectic, and I listen to most music types,
though I'm not a big fan of rap, or country (there are a few
exceptions). I generally like 80s, 90s, classic rock, hard rock,
modern rock, some heavy metal, techno, trance, and some pop. I also
like some big band and swing. Occasionally, I also listen to
classical, but not often. See below for more specifics...
If you have read this far, thank you for your time and patience. :)
Take care. :) If you would like to know more, just ask, and I might
tell you. :)
What I’m doing with my life
I spend most of my time working and taking care of my two kids
(10yr old girl, 7 yr old boy). I wish I could tell you something
exciting, but I don't have the time or guts to try things like
bungie jumping or sky diving. :)
I’m really good at
Listening and empathizing, working with my hands, fixing things,
assembling things, and solving technical problems. Sometimes I'm a
fountain of useless knowledge. :)
The first things people usually notice about me
I hope the first thing people notice about me is my smile. :)
Beyond that, I have no idea. :)
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
Favorite books: 1984, Farenheit 451, Victim Prime, various Kurt
Vonnegut novels such as Cat's Cradle, and sci-fi such as the
BattleTech series. I haven't read a novel in a while. :)
Favorite Movies: 5th Element, Jurassic Park, Appleseed, Underworld,
Van Wilder, Ferris Bueller's Day Off, Office Space, Indiana Jones
movies, 40 Year Old Virgin, the James Bond movies, the Bourne
movies, the Pirates of the Caribbean movies, Matrix series, Cars,
Wall-E, X-Men series, Monty Python's Holy Grail, Princess Bride,
Ninja Scroll, and a few dozen others. I like to watch movies, and
have a large number of them. :) Believe it or not, I even enjoy
watching many of the "chick flicks". :) I usually watch action and
comedies (whether they be animated or not).
Favorite TV: The Big Bang Theory, Chuck, Grey's Anatomy, Bones,
House, Stargate Atlantis, BSG (though I only watch the seasons once
on DVD), Farscape (DVD seasons).
Favorite music: I'm all over the map here. Depending on my mood,
various techno/trance tunes, 80s, 90s, and rock in general. More
specifically: Evanescence, Nickelback, Dido, Christina Aguilera,
Last of the Mohicans soundtrack, Blue Man Group, Daughtry, Linkin
Park, AC/DC, Nine Inch Nails (older stuff), Concrete Blonde,
Crystal Method, Duran Duran, Garbage, Limp Bizkit (the censored
Walmart versions), Van Halen (both Roth and Hagar), Cherry Poppin
Daddies, and others.
Favorite foods: Japanese, Chinese, Vietnamese, various American
cuisine. I'm more of a chicken person than beef person. For
dessert, I like key-lime pie, cheese cakes of various flavors,
carrot cake with cream cheese icing; pumpkin pie, and various fruit
pies/cobblers.
The six things I could never do without
My kids, a roof over our heads, a job, food, air, and water. :) The
rest is just stuff I can replace.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Technology. It's my job, but also my interest. I also spend time
thinking about the economy, and the mess we are currently in. I
also think about politics, even though I'm not a huge fan of it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Watching recorded TV, listening to music while surfing the
Internet, or watching movies at home. All of that is after my kids
are in bed. :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
I'm not a morning person, so I have two alarm clocks. :) I don't
like heights. I have thought about learning to dance salsa, waltz,
or something similar but never have. I'm a bit dancing-challenged,
and in serious need of lessons. :)
You should message me if
In no particular order...
1. You love kids - whether you have your own or not.
2. You want to start out as friends, with potential to be best
friends, and more.
3. You are a single mom who is looking for someone to spend time or
talk with, who understands single parenthood.
4. You would rather go home with the designated driver, rather than
the "life of the party".
5. You are just looking for a friend. I'm always open to making new
friends. :)
6. You find me interesting. :)