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Novananda
43 / M / straight / Single
Oakland, California
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The Skinny
- Last Online
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- Ethnicity
- White
- Height
- 5' 9" (1.75m).
- Body Type
- Athletic
- Looking For
- New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
- Smokes
- No
- Drinks
- Sometimes
- Drugs
- —
- Religion
- Other and very serious about it
- Sign
- Virgo and it’s fun to think about
- Education
- Graduated from college/university
- Job
- Computer / Hardware / Software
- Income
- Rather not say
- Kids
- Likes children
- Pets
- Likes dogs and Likes cats
- Languages
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), French (Poorly)
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Your Notes
Edit your notesI am grounded, quirky, and adventurous.
My Self-Summary
Spiritually-speaking, I could go on and on, but I can sum it up pretty tight with some quotes, "We are not human beings having a spiritual experience; we are spiritual beings having a human experience." A famous yogi said, "See The Divine in all, or see the Divine not at all." Full stop...
Yoga and meditation practices as well as Vedic, Buddhist, Tantric philosophies fire me up inside. That said, I embrace Fun and the human experience broadly (to say the least), balancing whatever spiritual ground I am cultivating with a healthy dose of responsible hedonism. My social (humanist, I suppose), political (Green), cultural (epicurean) and sexual (sex positive, noting that this does not exclude monogamy) values are very progressive - I am not for the shy or conservative.
I play various musical instruments, sing, have a home studio and have had my share of time on stages. My music is so much more than hobby - it colors My Life and harmonizes it with an ever-evolving soundtrack. I certainly don't always act my age, though my emotional core reflects my years. I am brimming with compassion and hope for the world and think we are still in the infancy of our human expression and potential. Though, I am sometimes a sappy romantic, I am often very irreverent, sarcastic and controversial. Much of my Worldview draws from my travels around the world and I will usually be planning a trip somewhere (so, get on The Bus). I love culture and counter-culture. Wealth should only be defined by the ability to be generous and I know that the rainbow is ALWAYS more important than the pot of gold.
Sure I want all the soulmate stuff – a fertile place to dream, a safe place to stumble, transcendent mind-blowing creatively inquisitive passion, growing old together, etc. - but, there’s so much discovery that must take place before that - a passionate soul…sarcastic, silly, quirky, cerebrally funny...a love affair with the vastness of life, untethered to convention or social dogma...laughter (and I will make you laugh) and humility all the time...a eager embrace of the absurd and offbeat...lust for travel and exploration...Black Rock City experience or aspirations are a plus (Burning Man continues to be a expansive part of my life for 7 years now, but I am not ruled by it)... some baggage is certainly OK with me - a little patina on the soul adds character and dimension - as long as you are prepared to co-evolve with me (but I cannot teach) ...of course, mostly, I am looking for someone with whom I have That Flow and who helps me feel authentic and free.
What I’m doing with my life
...I am currently working on a rock opera about robots, love, humanity, divinity...
...I am wondering why someone hasn't randomly walked into my backyard and cleaned my BBQ grill - I am concerned that I may have to do it myself...UPDATE: I cleaned it my old damn self...
...continually storyboarding 3 or 4 films in my head that I want to make so that I can compose their scores...
...career wise: background as a corporate consultant for sales/marketing/business development in the high-tech (software) sector transforming into a non-profit founder focused on green technology, renewable energy, sustainable commerce and social justice...
...apparently, online dating...
I’m really good at
Overusing the auspicious ellipsis (...)
Listening...
Not watching TV...
Finding interesting and unique things to do on a weekend night...
Not being your typical California yoga/meditation/flakey hippie boy (my roots are East Coast)...
Fixing things with duct tape and chewing gum....
Making personally expressive music...
Not conforming to labels...
Enjoying Life deeply...
The first things people usually notice about me
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
The Power of Myth, The Power of Now, Guns Germs & Steel, The Tao of Physics, most anything by Stanilav Grof, Jack Kornfield, Pema Chodron, Noam Chomsky, Howard Zinn, BKS Iyengar, Thich Nhat Hanh, Daniel Pinchbeck, Ken Wilber, Neil Gaiman, Paul Hawkin, Anory Lovins, Bill McDonough.... - and an obscure fav, The Autobiography of Bigfoot: In Me Own Words...as far as poetry and classics, with the exception of a few modern poets (have you read "Say Yes" by Andrea Gibson?!) mostly old school Rumi (duh), Gibran, Neruda, Whitman, Wordsworth, Voltaire, Yeats, Frost, Wilde, etc.
eyes...
Raising Arizona, (tempted to list Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind early but I would cry... oh geez, here I go...), 1 Giant Leap, 1 Giant Leap 2, Baraka, Harold & Maude, What the Bleep, Stay, Monty Python anything, Renegade (aka Blueberry), Youth Without Youth, 2001 Space Odyssey, The Matrix, V for Vendetta, Napoleon Dynamite, Waking Life, My Dinner With Andre, anything by Wes Anderson, Coen Brothers, Tim Burton - and more cult-ish ones by David Lynch, Alejandro Jodorowsky, Jim Jarmusch, Tarsem Singh, etc. - plus most any scary or sci-fi movie...
ears...
Music, huh? Man, that's a tough one for a musician - rock (prog, classic, jam...), jazz, downtempo, ambient, psytrance, breaks, IDM, trip hop. world, old school hardcore, 60s soul, 70s sugar, 80s guyliner...and any good thumpin' booty shakin' EDM...my own music, Miles, Coltrane, Wes, lots of other jazz, Led Zep, lots of other classic rock, Shpongle, Solar Fields, Carbon Based Lifeforms, Entheogenic, Kaya Project, Aes Dana, lots of other Psyambient (bonus if you know what the hell that is), Zero 7, Thievery Corp, K&D, lots of other downtempo, Sound Tribe Sector 9, Pnuma Trio, Galactic, The New Mastersounds, Phil Lesh & Friends, lots of other jam - and a range of DJ/producers/collectives: Bassnectar, Space Cowboys, Opulent Temple, Green Gorilla Lounge, Stanton Warriors, FreqNasty....
mouth...
My favorite food is Crystal Hot Sauce - it goes on anything...(oh, and I like very dark chocolate)
The six things I could never do without
music
yoga mat
optimism
meditation
the venerable ellipsis (...weren't you paying attention...?)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
On a typical Friday night I am
...buried deep in my studio making music with a bottle (or two) of red as the night whispers quiet words of inspiration...OR...
...on a drive to Tahoe to shoosh down the mountains a bit (I shoosh with 2 sticks, by the way)....OR...
...(formerly) at the dearly departed Parkway Theater sitting on a stinky couch eating surprisingly good pizza watching some compelling or just plain silly movie...