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59 • New York, NY • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 18–98
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last Online
- Nov 24
- 5′ 3″ (1.60m)
- Body Type
- Mostly anything
- Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from masters program
- Art / Music / Writing
- Rather not say
- Relationship Status
- Relationship Type
- English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Italian (Okay), Russian (Poorly)
4. Grasping new ideas.
5. Seeing to the heart of things.
People often tell me they notice my energy, my enthusiasm, my joy, and my smile. Even when I think I'm not in a good mood, they comment on how happy I seem just to be exactly where I am. So I must be doing something right!
But wait! I also love detective fiction (S.J. Rozan, Lia Matera, Sara Paretsky, Minette Walters--yes, I'm especially a sucker for female detectives with complicated personal lives, or male detectives with ditto)...And I once was a huge Judith Krantz fan, so I have my trashy side.
That side comes out in TV watching, too. If you hate TV, no worries. We can enjoy high, serious, or experimental culture together. I used to have my own political and poetic theater company, which I'm still hoping to revive, and I am delighted to go to the opera, great films, theater of all types, concerts and music of all types...But if you do like TV, MAYBE we can watch together. I love a range of sitcoms (30Rock and Big Bang Theory are current favorites), chick-flick dramedies (yes, Gray's Anatomy, I won't try to hide it), and a bunch of other stuff.
As far as music and sports, if you're into either, educate me! I used to play piano and violin, and I know a lot about some kinds of music, almost nothing about others, DELIGHTED to learn. DITTO SPORTS--I used to have a boyfriend who loved basketball, and I was a fan for a year after we broke up, but couldn't sustain it on my own. I've always missed knowing that part of life--especially now that I'm often at a poker table, where everyone is talking about it!--and I'd be thrilled to be initiated...That's NOT one more woman saying she likes sports and lying about it; I'm just saying I'd like to learn. :)
Food? Eclectic and enthusiastic. But that's also a pleasure we can enjoy either together or separately...
2. Stuff to write with
4. People I love whom I can talk to--about ideas, emotions, politics, art, gossip, daily trivia, life's big issues...
5. Taking myself out to a restaurant or a cafe with a good book and maybe a notebook, and just doing nothing for several hours...
6. A sense of mission
Also where to take the perfect lunch or dinner break from my free-lance work at home, with outdoor seating & delicious food...
If there's a partner in my life, I spend a lot of time thinking about nice things to do for him, which sounds incredibly sappy and self-serving to say on this site, but it's true. :)
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