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42 Medford, OR Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 29–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 10:35pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Working on university
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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My site name is as fitting as any, ever! I am an unabashed man who's seen too much unrequited love that lacked sensory affectionate touch. So, after having my identity thieved, I'm reluctant to share too much digitally. I understand we're all busy and time is both short & valuable. I dont want to exchange messages for months before we actually speak. We're adults, lets not waste each others time. I am more of an in person or @ least live on phone kinda guy.
What I’m doing with my life
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Advancing my career, volunteering, travelling..alone, and not enough! Tell you something else; ponder this.. Seems most women on here who are seeking the "real thing" and seem fitting, just happen to be "temporarily" living elsewhere, even though their profiles say in Oregon. Furthermore, most often they just happen to be in another country~africa seems to be the most common. Then there's the whole here's my email and or lets text but never a lets talk on the phone where tone, inflection etc play in...uGh. So, i have gone along, trying to not be negative or doubtful while remaining slightly skeptical. I ask myself what am i doing here? Seems any woman who is honest, genuine & true wants a bad "BOY" rather than a good man. Still, God is good and continually renews, heals and grows my heart...Ty Jesus
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being truly present & real. *Ya ya i know, these are cliche words now a days* but its true. I actually listen and care. I dont just offer a solution and usually will offer to pray about whatever it is or just pray about it myself when that's not welcome. When a crisis happens I'm steady and remain clear although sometimes afterwards I may need to sit and chill to process. I've seen a lot in life . Ask me anything.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Women tend to not notice me or idk perhaps im not so good @ catching it..? Could be due to the fact that I'm not a robot or pop culture trend; meaning Im much more than your basic guy : no hair lots of ink, big muscles and mostly neanderthal~ish. I've never been a man whore or whatever~ give it a name..
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My shelves are full of books I have yet to read. Big Bang Theory makes me laugh..out..loud. I enjoy most music. Blues, jazz & big band, specifically the violin moves me. Italian food is my favorite. My friends don't miss a dinner party @ my place ;-)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Stimulating conversation
Love, expressed in all its ways shapes and forms
..should go w/o saying, God, Family, Loved ones..
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
You want to be curious about some things, yes?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out for dinner, drinks n a show.. Or chillin @ home in front of the fireplace or in the hot tub. Lately, I'm reading more or sitting quietly. I am developing an awful habit of toasting marshmallows in my fireplace while sipping hot chocolate..
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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When its cold outside i go to bed with socks on. * Bonus if you can sound like Betty Boop * That's all youre getting @ this point
You should message me if
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You can envision dancing together in the kitchen even without music..You are real, honest and know yourself. None is perfect but you will realize your worth & value as a soul in a body, a human being and as a woman. Ideally you are interested in appreciating & reciprocating respect, dignity and honor oh and loving touches, embraces and kisses.