Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
My site name is as fitting as any, ever! I am an unabashed man
who's seen too much unrequited love that lacked sensory
affectionate touch. So, after having my identity thieved, I'm
reluctant to share too much digitally. I understand we're all busy
and time is both short & valuable. I dont want to exchange
messages for months before we actually speak. We're adults, lets
not waste each others time. I am more of an in person or @ least
live on phone kinda guy.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Advancing my career, volunteering, travelling..alone, and not
enough! Tell you something else; ponder this.. Seems most women on
here who are seeking the "real thing" and seem fitting, just happen
to be "temporarily" living elsewhere, even though their profiles
say in Oregon. Furthermore, most often they just happen to be in
another country~africa seems to be the most common. Then there's
the whole here's my email and or lets text but never a lets talk on
the phone where tone, inflection etc play in...uGh. So, i have gone
along, trying to not be negative or doubtful while remaining
slightly skeptical. I ask myself what am i doing here? Seems any
woman who is honest, genuine & true wants a bad "BOY" rather
than a good man. Still, God is good and continually renews, heals
and grows my heart...Ty Jesus
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being truly present & real. *Ya ya i know, these are cliche
words now a days* but its true. I actually listen and care. I dont
just offer a solution and usually will offer to pray about whatever
it is or just pray about it myself when that's not welcome. When a
crisis happens I'm steady and remain clear although sometimes
afterwards I may need to sit and chill to process. I've seen a lot
in life . Ask me anything.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Women tend to not notice me or idk perhaps im not so good @
catching it..? Could be due to the fact that I'm not a robot or pop
culture trend; meaning Im much more than your basic guy : no hair
lots of ink, big muscles and mostly neanderthal~ish. I've never
been a man whore or whatever~ give it a name..
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My shelves are full of books I have yet to read. Big Bang Theory
makes me laugh..out..loud. I enjoy most music. Blues, jazz &
big band, specifically the violin moves me. Italian food is my
favorite. My friends don't miss a dinner party @ my place ;-)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love, expressed in all its ways shapes and forms
..should go w/o saying, God, Family, Loved ones..
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
You want to be curious about some things, yes?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out for dinner, drinks n a show.. Or chillin @ home in front of the
fireplace or in the hot tub. Lately, I'm reading more or sitting
quietly. I am developing an awful habit of toasting marshmallows in
my fireplace while sipping hot chocolate..
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
When its cold outside i go to bed with socks on. * Bonus if you can
sound like Betty Boop * That's all youre getting @ this point
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You can envision dancing together in the kitchen even without
music..You are real, honest and know yourself. None is perfect but
you will realize your worth & value as a soul in a body, a
human being and as a woman. Ideally you are interested in
appreciating & reciprocating respect, dignity and honor oh and
loving touches, embraces and kisses.
Who are you looking for?
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