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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 29–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:17pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Strictly anything
Working on university
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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What can i say you haven't heard a gazillion times?? ...My site name is as fitting as any, ever! I am an unabashed. I am uncommon. I am mostly old school/world but surprisingly modern *ask me. We're all busy and time is both short & valuable. Let's not exchange messages for months before we actually speak. A simple meet and eat or drink someplace will tell us what we need to know, yes? I am more of an in person or @ least live on phone kinda guy, where tone, inflection, facial expressions tell the rest of the story. I am from a different time & place, dare i say, era/age..? Pretty much nowadays.. I am not perfect, nor are you. That being said, i do have a lot of real great qualities that are largely lacking among today's men.
What I’m doing with my life
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*Heading to Portland soon*!!
Advancing my career, volunteering, travelling..alone, and not enough! Trying to keep my eyes open for that special woman who is deep, smart, fun, loving and faithful! God is good and continually renews, heals and grows my heart.. I know you're out there, yes you the one who can "get" me/ what i'm saying..
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being truly present & real. *Ya ya i know, these are cliche words now a days* but its true. I actually listen and care. I don't impose a solution but will offer help/advice if asked. When a crisis happens I'm steady and remain clear although sometimes afterwards I may need to sit and chill to process. I've seen a lot in life . Ask me anything.
The first things people usually notice about me
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There's no place for NOT really good @ so here goes ~i am NOT good @:
1. Lying
2. Conveying or coming across 'digitally'
3. Apparently modern online dating
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My shelves are full of books I have yet to read. Big Bang Theory makes me laugh..out..loud. I enjoy most music. Blues, jazz & big band, specifically the violin moves me. Italian food is my favorite. My friends don't miss a dinner party @ my place ;-)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Stimulating conversation
Love, expressed in all its ways shapes and forms
..should go w/o saying, God, Family, Loved ones..
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
All the good things from my ancestors that i have to pass down to children & young people. All the love i have to offer..
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out for dinner, drinks n a show.. Or chillin @ home in front of the fireplace or in the hot tub. Lately, I'm reading more or sitting quietly. I am developing an awful habit of toasting marshmallows in my fireplace while sipping hot chocolate..
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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A few years back a lump node on my throat and some treatment took 40# of muscle. I'm about 1/2 way back in that regard. When its cold outside i go to bed with socks on...
You should message me if
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You can envision dancing together in the kitchen even without music..You are real, honest and know yourself. You realize your worth & value as a soul in a body, a human being and as a woman. Ideally you are interested in appreciating & reciprocating respect, dignity and honor oh and loving touches, embraces and kisses.