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42 Virginia Beach, VA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35-45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 11
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Average build
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has dogs
English (Fluently), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Hey, It's Me! I'm the new girl in town - was just transplanted from Cape Cod with a brief hiatus in DC and am looking to meet someone to explore the city with. Is that you?

Anyway - here I am, in all of my glory, hoping that you will find me as interesting and lovable as my friends and family do.

Originally, I asked all of my girlfriends how they would describe me, but then I realized - I’m not trying to find a girl, I’m looking to find a man! So, I came up with a brilliant idea. Brilliant I tell you. I asked all of my guy friends how THEY would describe me. The following quotes are actual and unedited. Thanks guys!

--Cool, hip and stylish. Wicked fun to hang out with. (Told you I was living in New England - wicked...geez).
--Fiercely independent.
--Great conversationalist who can switch from serious and smart to fun and flirtatious. Can talk about anything.
--A good wing-man (shouldn’t that be wing-woman?)
--Super easy-going
--Exotic and modern looks. Very pretty.
--Makes good lasagna. (I’d say that’s debatable)
--Ultra-fantastic lips with a smile that lights up the room.
--A great shopping companion (Yes, from a guy)
--Confident, sexy, smart and witty. Can take a ribbing but can dish it out too.
--One-liner queen!
-- Creative and artsy, great with tools!
--Good dancer, not so good karaoke singer (true, but when I have a few drinks in me….)
--Amazingly beautiful eyes

So there you have me from a man’s point of view. From my end, I love who I am and am proud of the woman I've become. I am independent, smart, curious, artsy, capable and adventurous. I've been back packing through Europe, camping under a trash bag tent in Indonesia and whale watching in Canada. I'm a scuba diver, conservationist and video game player (yes, I still like them even at my age). I love being creative and making something out of nothing - especially when it is something that can be reused / repurposed. I like to change things up to keep life interesting. You'd be hard pressed to find me in a bad mood and my family is extremely important to me.

I'm not perfect, but if all the people in this world were, just imagine what a boring place this would be! If you can make me laugh, you've already got your foot in the door.

Come on!? If you are still reading at this point I must be at least minutely interesting. What do you have to lose? Send me an email.
What I’m doing with my life
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Drinking Chai lattes and reading at the local coffee shop. Working to save endangered species. Painting and dry walling my condo. Shopping farmers and flea markets. Making something.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Channeling my inner MacGyver.
Dancing while I clean house.
Parallel parking.
Making something useful and interesting out of old things.
Reinventing myself while staying true to me.
Finding the good in people.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't have a tail or a 5th limb or anything so my eyes are probably noticed first.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Water For Elephants
Ready Player One
Wild Sheep Chase
Watership Down
All Things Bright and Beautiful

Love Actually
About A Boy
Goodwill Hunting
Garden State
500 Days of Summer
Indiana Jones
Reservoir Dogs
Pulp Fiction
Best in Show
Silence of the Lambs
Monsters, Inc.
Slumdog Millionaire

Broken Bells
Arcade Fire
The Shins
Death Cab
Vampire Weekend
Plus lots lots more
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family
Fizzy water
A creative outlet

Aww nuts. Overboard. That's 7.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The derivatives of words - specifically scientific nomenclature.
Human interactions.
The inhabitants of the ocean (known and unknown).
Music and lyrics.
My next home improvement project.
What's for dinner?
Everything and nothing at all.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've knocked both of my front teeth out 5 times. Trying to avoid a sixth! Don't worry, I can't pull them out or anything. ; )
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I am looking for a man who appreciates and loves me for me and inspires me to be the best that I can be with support and encouragement. I will do the same for him. Im very much attracted to the alternative / artsy type. A guy who knows that men should never wear tank tops with beer logos. Honesty. Loyalty. Good taste in music. Strong family ties. Kindness to all people and all animals at all times. Intelligence and wit - the most important of them all.