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49 Brattleboro, VT Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 2:21pm
Black, Native American, Other
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Not at all
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from Ph.D program
Art / Music / Writing
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a joyful, precocious and abnormally well grounded human (mostly...). I am physically and Intellectually agile and get as enthusiastic about ideas as I do about corporeal adventures. I know how to play like a mongoose and how to sit still quietly for long periods of time, finding profound satisfaction in each. I am adept at loving and receiving love (mostly...). I know how to laugh and how to cry. I seek sincere and enthusiastic collaborators / witnesses in my process of becoming whole and crave the same privilege of supporting others.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am a musician and an instrument builder. I am a sculptor, a dancer, an educator and a student of life. I ardently focus on what is most important to me - connection (there's a heap more to say about this, but I'll wait until we are face to face).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making all manner of things well, figuring out ways to make things / make things work better, crying during the happy parts of movies, listening and paying attention to details, asking piercing questions, knowing my heart, being unflinchingly willing to be known by others, not giving up, staying up late, dancing (a new friend met at a Contact Improvisation Jam last week paid me a lovely compliment: "You have the most sympathetic hips of anyone I have ever danced with!" - for full effect, imagine this spoken in a Colombian accent), perspiring, kissing, touching (listening with my fingers), not making promises that I can't keep, keeping my promises, swimming and holding my breath under water, jumping, dreaming about flying, being faithful, falling in love, paying no attention to the passage of time, ....
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile and the light in my eyes (so I'm told)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Malcolm Gladwell's 'Outliers,' Ross King's 'Brunelleschi's Dome,' Marlo Morgan's 'Mutant Message Down Under,' Elizabeth Gilbert's 'Eat, Pray, Love,'

Movies: The Frisco Kid, Like Water For Chocolate, Most Science Fiction,
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Today's list:
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Teamwork. How to love better. Music.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dancing and cuddling with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If your interest comes from a sincere desire to know me then there is absolutely nothing I will not tell you about myself.