I am dreaming the impossible dream; a sweet warm hearted empathetic lady; thin, or with a little extra; within 30 minutes driving time; and she has to be willing to put up with my deficiencies!
I live a bit of an unconventional lifestyle in that I’m a home health care attendant. I do this from my home with my ex-wife of 8 years as my client. While I’m only on the clock for 10 hours a day, I’m “on call” in perpetuity. I only get one mid-week evening, and one weekend day off a week, so if you’re looking for someone to be eating a bowl of cereal in their underwear, and watching cartoons on the weekends with, I’m not your guy.
You won’t find my little tiny hairs scattered covering your sink, other hairs clogging your shower, my clothes littering your floor, or the other ancillary things that come with being a couple. Instead you get a freshly showered, cleanly shaven, lightly perfumed, clean dressed man that is ready for an evening of pleasuring you; whether it be by dining out, going for a drive to an interesting place or event (or nowhere in particular); allowing me access to your kitchen to cook you a nice meal and watching some tube; spending some time with friends over a bottle of wine; or any of the other countless things that are available to do together.
I’m not looking to “fall in love”; been there, done that, and the aftermath sucks. That isn’t to say that it won’t happen eventually, just that my scars will serve as a reminder to not allow it to happen until well after the relationship is established, and has found firm footing.
I’m looking for a long term companion to enjoy some of the time left that life has allotted me; the idea of just sitting around waiting for the dirt nap to come is unacceptable. Yes, I would expect that at some point the relationship would become physical, I’m not a horn dog, but I’m not dead either. If and when that line is crossed, you would find me to be an attentive and gentle lover. If however, you must believe yourself to be “in love” before a physical interaction can be considered, please pass on me, as I don’t have “that” much patience.
If you are a sweet, empathetic, lady with a fun personality that would like a man in her life, but not under foot; embrace the thought of being loved, but not “in love”; like your space, but would like to share it too; are looking for a companion to share life’s experiences with; enjoy the carnal pleasures, but think it would be enhanced with a partner; perhaps I’m the guy that you’ve been waiting for……..