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NvrMindThisName

44 M Greenfield, MA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 11:45am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other
Sign
Leo
Education
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Very secure with being insecure. I'm insecure with being secure. I am authentic except when I'm nervous, because it's not easy. It is scary and generally not recognized for anybody, by anybody. Everybody is authentic within their own selves. Authenticity is a privilege, an experience, a circumstance. It's related to dignity, self-esteem: can a person be authentic without self-esteem? Women have this gift: sexuality, and though this gift is placed on a pedestal, sexuality itself is considered an unimportant aspect of economic life, as though business, education, politics, is more important, not equally important. I think this misunderstanding is so very destructive.

I am still, still, and unintentionally loud

On a less metaphorical note, I love to cook healthy food. I just lost my huge wooden salad bowl which doubles as my serving bowl. It's about 16 inches wide. I just love wholesome food, meaning food with life and vitality - the opposite of industrial food. I avoid chemicals in my food.

I think clock radios are a terrible invention. When people were farmers, waking to the cycle of the days was more of a natural process. Doing it artificially becomes poison for the soul. We ought to have 20 hour work weeks and carefully dismantle our skyscrapers.

The more I get older, the more I only have time for meditation and exercise, a few close friends and family, and my incessant work. (I guess like most people I work more than 20 hours a week. But my life is a contradiction in that in order to avoid an office environment where I don't have a clock radio waking me up every day, so I can sleep whenever I need, I also have to work long hours because I'm a freelancer. But I can work from anywhere with an internet connection and a comfortable couch.)

I don't have any chairs in my apartment except for fold-up chairs for visitors. I have lots of meditation cushions though, and I whip together little couches made out of futons and buckwheat pillows laid down on my tatami mats.

I seek physical environments conducive to the best in the human spirit. I think this is about the most important thing there is.

Take care all!
What I’m doing with my life
I'm trying to understand anti-racism and and anti-sexism are now used in the service of racism and sexism by forms of power that dominate human life
I’m really good at
exercising by remaining still
The first things people usually notice about me
That I have something else going on with my soul
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
wholesome food of any sort
no chemicals
My Life as a Dog
The Shining
Eraserhead
Apocalypse Now
On a typical Friday night I am
About the same as I am on a typical Monday - Thursday or Saturday or Sunday night
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I think that balance means understanding struggle and understanding joy - not just understanding joy
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 29–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You haven't had an easy life either by choice or circumstance, or you don't define yourself by the life you must live to get an education or a job (if you have either of these) and you have some sense that your poverty (whether from too little or too much) is not your fault (because it isn't) ... I like that phrase used in yoga classes everywhere, "Namaste", which carries the innuendo "peace", but I don't think yoga classes are the way to peace until they become free of charge and less pretentious. If you agree maybe you should message me.