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44 Greenfield, MA Man


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  • Ages 29–42
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Feb 28
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
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My self-summary
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Very secure with being insecure. I'm insecure with being secure. I am authentic except when I'm nervous, because it's not easy. It is scary and generally not recognized for anybody, by anybody. Everybody is authentic within their own selves. Authenticity is a privilege, an experience, a circumstance. It's related to dignity, self-esteem: can a person be authentic without self-esteem? Women have this gift: sexuality, and though this gift is placed on a pedestal, sexuality itself is considered an unimportant aspect of economic life, as though business, education, politics, is more important, not equally important. I think this misunderstanding is so very destructive.

I am still, still, and unintentionally loud

On a less metaphorical note, I love to cook healthy food. I just lost my huge wooden salad bowl which doubles as my serving bowl. It's about 16 inches wide. I just love wholesome food, meaning food with life and vitality - the opposite of industrial food. I avoid chemicals in my food.

I think clock radios are a terrible invention. When people were farmers, waking to the cycle of the days was more of a natural process. Doing it artificially becomes poison for the soul. We ought to have 20 hour work weeks and carefully dismantle our skyscrapers.

The more I get older, the more I only have time for meditation and exercise, a few close friends and family, and my incessant work. (I guess like most people I work more than 20 hours a week. But my life is a contradiction in that in order to avoid an office environment where I don't have a clock radio waking me up every day, so I can sleep whenever I need, I also have to work long hours because I'm a freelancer. But I can work from anywhere with an internet connection and a comfortable couch.)

I don't have any chairs in my apartment except for fold-up chairs for visitors. I have lots of meditation cushions though, and I whip together little couches made out of futons and buckwheat pillows laid down on my tatami mats.

I seek physical environments conducive to the best in the human spirit. I think this is about the most important thing there is.

Take care all!
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm trying to understand anti-racism and and anti-sexism are now used in the service of racism and sexism by forms of power that dominate human life
I’m really good at
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exercising by remaining still
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I have something else going on with my soul
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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wholesome food of any sort
no chemicals
My Life as a Dog
The Shining
Apocalypse Now
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The room I'm in
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
About the same as I am on a typical Monday - Thursday or Saturday or Sunday night
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I think that balance means understanding struggle and understanding joy - not just understanding joy
You should message me if
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You haven't had an easy life either by choice or circumstance, or you don't define yourself by the life you must live to get an education or a job (if you have either of these) and you have some sense that your poverty (whether from too little or too much) is not your fault (because it isn't) ... I like that phrase used in yoga classes everywhere, "Namaste", which carries the innuendo "peace", but I don't think yoga classes are the way to peace until they become free of charge and less pretentious. If you agree maybe you should message me.