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NyghtShade

21 / M / gay / Single

Jacksonville, Florida

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Religion
Other and very serious about it
Sign
Leo and it matters a lot
Education
Working on two-year college
Job
Student
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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I am confused, curious, and aware.

My Self-Summary

I'm just a random person. I goto parks, watch movies, series tv, i hang out with my bestfriend, I simply dont care what i do cause i enjoy every everything. I'm not a narrow person. I'm spiritual, meaning I can accept your religion so accept mine (and alot more info on that... but ask about it mkay?). I don't hate you. PERIOD I'm a very flirty person, all the time doesn't matter your gender, orientation, tall, short, fat, skinny, fit, unfit. I'm also brutally honest. If you ask a question I'm Likely to tell you the answer and i'm not always nice about it. :P

What I’m doing with my life

I'm going to college so that I can be a clinical psychologist for the LGBTQ youth.

I just moved in with my best friend.We are like yin to yang always have been since high school. bloodred_roses

Oh and my current favorite habit is buying a stuffed animal and Arming him/or her with baby clothes. My best friend is prego cause she is loco and I've decided that I need to support this bizarre endeavor with my flavor of LOVE. Which happens to be teddy bears/Lions/panda/penguins/ Artic Foxes/ bunnies/monkeys... Right now Only a Teddy bear and the Pandy have clothes. I must Arm the rest with clothing so that we might surpass this point of our lives!!!!

I’m really good at

What ever I set my mind to doing. I'm free flowing. I spend alot of time just observing people so i'm really good at reading people. I know that simply the way you look at me tells me if your interested or not. and its oh so much fun to figure people out.

The first things people usually notice about me

I'm really deep, and sometimes brooding. On the flip note I'm usually bouncy and can switch back and forth at a moments notice. I'm really good at controlling my emotions.

I am a FLIRT. I'm free spirit not bound to the normal convections of the limitations that human kind has set upon themselves. I follow the rules so far as is needed and once i am done with that I say f*** this shit and do what ever the hell I want. Simply just the way i want to be.

My personality is the main thing ppl notice about me. ITs what hooks you in and draws your attention. My face is always there with a smile and quick encouraging word.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I love everything.

Books- Twilight series ATM, and Sylvia Browne

Movies- Latter days... not a big movie fan but i have quite a few!!!!

Music- Pick something you can dance like a black girl and there you have me.

---> other music that I really like --> MSI, Rise against, Linkin Park, Fort Minor, Lady Gaga, Cascada.... I cant list them all I love EVERYTHING lol

Food- Spicy. Thats all it takes to turn me on. Thai, Chinese, Mexican. Love it ALL

The six things I could never do without

Pens, Journal, books, music, cell phone...... OR just my mac. It does everything i need and I love it. Appolones

--Appolones is my macbook, he recently had a hardware failure... I'm very upset about it, happily though i was able to get him fixed... Unfortunately the problem was the HD failed to stop spinning after i closed it and it dropped. So on the happy note I got him back, but now its like he has amnesia :D

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Life and how everything works. I love talking to those who have passed, and finding their story.

I think about the future... what am i doing with my life... and how to make it go the way i want

On a typical Friday night I am

depends am i working? or if i am working the next day....

I really enjoy spending time alone... then again I really like spending time with my friends... its a mood thing right? we all have them... I just happen to express mine more often then ppl i know :D lol

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Anything My life is an open book but please don't ruffle the pages... I hate when ppl do that to books.

I talk about my life like its right before me. I'll talk about the time I met the first gay person, Time i 1st fell in love, to the first breakup to the time i was physically assaulted and raped. I am not ashamed of who i am. Because to me I am beautiful and no one can take that away.

I like sex. I do what i like cause i find it fun I'm always safe as can be, with the obvious exception. I do tend after a short time of a month or so. IF I am only fucking one person and the other person is only with me (here is the trust) I'll tend to be wanting to stop the usage of condoms lol... Annoying buggers you know for a short time in the 1980's it was considered a sex toy? you know when HIV/AIDS was rampant? yeah ppl are fucking stupid!

You should message me if

you have any questions, concerning life, love, me, yourself. If there is anything you wanna talk about. Hook-ups are entertained as an idea if all is looking good its a possibility. But never assume that just cause you want it doesn't mean i do.

I am the person that likes to have friends that know me so well that when we hang out if we are both wanting to have sex then well thats exactly what we do. Why bother lying to ourselves? Lets get it right and have fun while we can and if it doesn't work then why the fuck are we trying?

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