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20 M Berkeley, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:22pm
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Russian (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
I've lived in many places until I came to NorCal a couple years ago, but I seem to have grown some intense roots here. I'm a traveler by nature, but I think I've found my home base in the Bay.

Queer as a mothafcka * art and expression * the great outdoors * exploring every aspect of life

I'm not cis. If that's a problem, hope you know where your back button is. If you don't know what that is, educate yo self.
What I’m doing with my life
Exploring it. Geographically, politically, socially, intellectually, spiritually, introspectively, artistically. All I want to do right now is learn, experience and participate. I want to integrate myself into the Bay Area, and it into me. I want to develop as an artist and as an activist. I want to build relationships with people that make me a better person; I want to figure out how I want to relate to other people and to myself. I'm very much in the middle of a drawn-out transitionary period that's been going on for over a year now and shows no signs of stopping.

Learning about systems of oppression in society and how they operate. Learning how to be a strong, active ally to every community that can benefit from it, and being aware of how various systems intersect to form our unique experiences of oppression. Finding ways to educate people about these issues and make them actually care.

REPPIN OSCAR WILDE CO-OP WOOOOOOOO!!! I'm compiling a zine for my queer cooperative house, and a documentary about the space and community.
I’m really good at
Finding the nooks and crannies of life that nobody told you about

Fucking with gender and sexuality. I'm genderqueer to some ridiculous extent (though baseline male, PGP = he/him), and my sexual orientation is barely even based on the concept of gender as a thing. It's more interested in how awesome and cute the person is.

Intense intellectual conversation about intersectionality, queer identities, life and the universe, radical politics, natural spiritualities, innermost secrets, etc. This is basically one of my favorite things to do: get lost in long and convoluted discussions about profound shit.

Making art. My goal in life is to change culture through art. Right now I mostly draw and write, but I love making movies and I eventually want to be a documentary filmmaker. I'm also suuuper into body art and tattoo, I'd love to be a tattoo artist but the opportunity has not presented itself yet. Meanwhile I do tat designs for myself and others.

Dressing myself on a $5 budget.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm always grinning, I'm dressed in bright colors and probably talking really loudly. I'm also tiny and have purple hair. edit: the purple faded to pink and i like it so i left it. edit2: back to my natural color for now.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music with a beat. Give me something to dance to and I'll be happy. That being said; hip-hop, EDM, pop to the top of the list. I also enjoy acoustic music with wistful lyrics.

- Beyonce, Rihanna, Gaga, Kesha, Katy Perry, Britney, Nicki
- A$AP Rocky, Kanye, E-40, Sage the Gemini, Andre Nickatina, Pac, ANGEL HAZE, Missy Elliott, Salt n Pepa
- Major Lazer, Skrillex, Flume, Datsik, Diplo, Ellie Goulding, The Cataracs
- Erykah Badu, Vienna Teng, Caroline Smith and the Goodnight Sleeps, Pink Floyd, Grimes

I don't watch a ton of movies or TV 'cause I don't like watching things alone. If you wanna get me into your favorite show or expose me to some movies, I'd be super down. I like things that have a sense of humor, that end well, and that have an interesting plot.

- Cabin in the Woods
- Love Actually
- Star Trek 2009
- ALL Miyazaki

- Planet Earth
- Orange is the New Black
- Looking
- RuPaul's Drag Race
- Firefly
- Supernatural

I mostly read non-fiction - (auto)biographies, theory, how-to books, essays, compilations, etc. I love certain types of poetry. I read to expose myself to others' experiences and to expand my intellectual horizons. Feel free to recommend me interesting stuff.

- Assata (Assata Shakur)
- Borderlands//La Frontera (Gloria Anzaldua)
- Whipping Girl (Julia Serrano)
- Animal, Vegetable, Miracle (Barbara Kingsolver)
- Les Miserables (Victor Hugo)
The six things I could never do without
Pants with cool colors/patterns (actually that's a lie, I spend a lot of my life without pants)
People who enable my inadvisable ideas
Creative input (to fuel my creative output)
A sense of humor
I can only count to 5, soz!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Directions I'm going in. How I relate to myself and to the world around me. How I'm going to influence the world. What I want to do with my life and how to get there. What I want in my life and what I don't want in it. What kind of person I want to be and how to become that.

Gender, sexuality, race, class, ability, the intersectionality thereof. Privilege. How to deal with my own privilege and how to turn it into being a productive ally.

The world, how ridiculous and diverse it is. Ranging from the smallest building blocks of the natural world to the miracles of life and love. I'm very easily impressed with all parts of the universe we live in.
On a typical Friday night I am
No such thing as a typical Friday night in the bay! There's too fucking many diverse things to experience here. Art Murmur on First Fridays. Going out if there's a cool party somewhere, or staying in and doing our own thing. Board games, TV nights, night hikes, impromptu baking, living room dance parties, hot tubbing all fair game.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i have pictures of porn that i painted hanging up on my walls. it's all super queer and diverse obvi

i'm literally the biggest hippie. if you ever go for a walk with me (especially a nature walk) prepare to hear me marvel about how amazing this or that tree is every 5 seconds or so.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 18–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You're queer and sexy (or straight and fine with exorbitant levels of queerness)

You wanna kick it in any of the ways previously described on the page, or have a suggestion about alternative ways we could kick it

You're a truly cray motherfucker

Can't fucking believe I have to say it, but here goes. I'm into people of ANY race, gender identity/expression, body type and ability level.

ALSO this is IMPORTANT. I take for-fucking-ever to message people back. I'm sorry about that, but OKC just isn't my usual stomping grounds. If I vibe with someone on here I wanna skip the online part and meet up in person ASAP 'cause I just can't keep up long online conversations. So if you really like me, ask me out to do something specific in the real world. I like taking walks and exploring places. I just really can't relate to a picture on the computer screen.