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OARfan7

28 Liverpool, NY Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–30
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Nov 17
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Education
Working on university
Job
Student
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Full Disclosure: I've been chronically ill for 4 years. As a person I’d say it’s made me better in certain ways. But I’m definitely not better off.

I still have a social life. I have some amazing friends that have stuck by me through all this.

I've kept a profile on here for hope & a sense of normalcy;
to show myself hey there's wonderful people out there & maybe one day I can start dating again.

But I've had no intention of dating, meeting,
or even talking to anyone online. So I apologize to those who messaged me when I never replied back. I don't like letting anyone down or to bring anyone into my troubles which makes me literally at a loss of words sometimes.

My early 20s are gone. I was supposed to be enjoying myself, growing up, setting a course for the rest of my life.

I'm writing this partly for myself. Maybe I can deal with it better if my thoughts are on the internet for all to see. Maybe it'll actually get me to make some online friends.

I don't know what people do in my situation. I know how to live from day to day, but that's all I'm really able to do. I’ve learned recently that my life has been stripped apart and I have to build myself up again piece by piece.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
On bad days, sometimes a lot of sleeping. But my days are probably similar to everyone's minus being able to work. I still go out to do things, restaurants, movies, a concert or comedian sometimes. If I could get some pain under control I'd be exercising more than the usual walking. Work in progress.
I read a lot. About all sorts of things. Science, medical stuff, philosophy, social issues, music, tv shows, video games.
Lately though it's been a lot of medical stuff, anatomy ect.
I've been sick for so long, I'd forgotten that I was more intelligent than how I was treating myself.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a good friend, talking about music, writing. I'd probably say I'm good at procrastinating from being awesome at other stuff.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes change colors sometimes depending on day/surrounding colors(clothes).
But generally they are green if you look up close, other wise they look more hazel.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I really like Florence and the Machine, 30 Rock, SNL, and Community. I'm a fan of Zooey Deschanel, yes even before she was everywhere. I think I probably annoyed half of you out there by saying that. don't hate.

Movies: I like most types of movies. Lets leave that up to conversation.

TV shows: Rather passionate about it as well. I used to think my dream job would be writing for TV or movies. But I don't know if that's the case anymore.

Besides the above. Um shows that haven't ended this season that I like are, Modern Family, the Big Bang Theory, Raising Hope, New Girl, Cougar Town, Suburgatory, Awake, Grim.

Music: I really like a range of rock/pop and alternative music along with certain metal. I'm not against other genres of music either. I could talk about music for a long time. Just a short list:

Crash Kings, Cat Power, Audioslave, The Scorpions, Bare Naked Ladies, Blue October, Halestorm, Buckcherry, Bon Jovi, Loney Dear, Kings of Leon, Weezer!! The Beatles, Cold, Coldplay, Creed, Crossfade, Def Leppard, DMB, Epica, Five for Fighting, Fuel, Gary Jules, Hinder, Keane, Kamelot, Live, Lynrd Skynrd, Our Lady Peace, Poets of the Fall, Radiohead, Bush, Guns N Roses, Matchbox 20, Nicklecreek, OAR, Seether, Oleander, Plain White T's, Shinedown, Straylight Run, RHCP, The Doors, The Fray, La Roux, Nightwish, Spacehog, Three Doors Down, Sick Puppies, Three Days Grace, SemiSonic, Thousand Foot Crutch, Tom Petty... those are some of them.

Books: I like to read but haven't found the time lately. But I like mystery, sci fi, fantasy novels ect. But I wouldn’t rule anything out if it seems good.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends, Family, hope, pets, a good bed, and fun.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to improve my life
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with friends is pretty much guaranteed. Or at home with family.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't know what people do in my situation. It's not like there's
places or a site for health impaired individuals to meet up nor to
say that that's appropriate or what I want.

I don't want pity or for that matter whatever the opposite of that is. Just understanding and friendship.

I've been on a number of drugs like muscle relaxers, pain killers ect. (Not for very long) I should be on pain killers now but they mask the pain and issues we are trying to sort out and they are addictive which is not something I take lightly.

There's a real person underneath this mess. Despite my circumstances and the above I try to stay positive & relaxed/mellow as I can. That's my view on life over all.
Honestly that's the only way I've gotten this far.
You should message me if
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you feel like it