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OBged Away

29 / M / Bisexual / Single

Oakland, California

His Details

Last Online
Online now!
Ethnicity
White, Other
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Strictly vegan
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Atheism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aries but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Income
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
I don't believe in cops, bosses, or politicians, some call that anarchism...i call it having a fucking heart that beats(not my words).

I'm all the things...queer, radical, vegan, anti-capitalist, anti-statist etc...they all seem pretty related to me. At the same time I always believe that if you "don't look outside the things that you believe they're gonna kill you."

I am really into the ocean and I surf all the time. I am secretly sporty. You can find me rollerblading the skate park sometimes and I wear a helmet, the punk rock level of that is debatable. I read and write and cook and bake and sew. i like stick n pokes.

I'm usually smiling and kind and friendly, but am often filled with rage at the levels of oppression and suffering in this fucked up world.
What I’m doing with my life
A long time ago I was a special ed teacher, not so long ago I was a social worker. Now I do work against domestic violence, as well as organizing around some other things I am passionate about, housing justice being my biggest focus currently. I also am trying to be a better human being and friend partner and advocate and tool against capitalism oppression patriarchy etc while hopefully building something built on humanity and compassion. This means i bite my finger nails a lot.
I’m really good at
Listening, for reals. Telling long stories with about 10 other stories in the middle. I like to think i'm a pretty good cook and baker and I spent like 12 years working with kids...so I think I'm pretty good at understanding kids.

I can also juggle and walk on my hands, but I'm not into burning man.
The first things people usually notice about me
Loud voice, stupid jokes, maybe absurd hair and that I kind of wear the same thing all the time, which reminds me that I love people who are cartoon characters and recognizable from the same outfit day after day
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm a freak about books...
Lately I've been completely obsessed with Samuel Delany.

I love Infinite Jest, Slaughter-House Five, 1984, The Unbearable Lightness of Being, and His Dark Materials Trilogy more than most things on this goddamned planet

Some writers who changed me are:
Borges
Kundera
Musil
David Foster Wallace
Gombrowicz
Pynchon
Le Guinn
Zerzan
Berkman
Voltairine de Cleyre
Goldman
George Saunders
Vonnegut
McCarthy
Hesse
Tim O'brien
Brecht
lots more and I'm way down to talk books

I like bright eyes a lot, and am usually in no mood to take shit about it....also REFUSED, pat the bunny and all his bands, regina spektor, arcade fire etc

I will eat anything vegan, i am not a picky eater
The six things I could never do without
i dunno, six things i really like are
friends
the ocean
my brother
working limbs
glasses so i can see
avocados
I spend a lot of time thinking about
this fucked up world and the little beautiful spots all around that I want to amplify
Prisons
Books
What the waves look like
How to take up less space with this male body, how to make myself less patriarchal, how to act in conversations, both 1 on 1 and group
How I can do the things I want to do in this world while still acknowledging all my white male cis privilege
On a typical Friday night I am
probably singing something loudly with friends
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Not private but kind of random...when people hang with me in my room they usually snack on chocolate chips that were already on my desk...nobody says no to chocolate chips
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 23–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
you are kind, compassionate , stand up for yourself and what you believe is right.

Maybe we have these things in common?
- anti police/military
- anti PIC and any form of authority and oppression
- continual acknowledging of your privilege and how it benefits you on the daily
- queer
- actively working to create the world you want to live in

Also, I'm stuck in Santa Cruz for work every Friday for most of the day, if anyone wants to surf or hike w me