I work nights, at the moment, but this changes in the summer, I do have weekends and mornings free. As I am quite sure all of you parents know, time runs by very fast at times, and we can keep endlessly busy with the daily rewards, trials, spats and all around great together time of parenting, but we need to continue to care for ourselves and do what we need to do for ourselves as well.
As it happens, I believe I am polyamorous in nature, but I admit that I am inexperienced with actually, well, being in a multiple relationship of any sort; (not an option in rural Michigan where I was raised and enculturated, but I am over most of that) and am throwing this out there in the interest of full disclosure, with the goal of meeting like minded people. This does not mean I am closed off to the idea of dating one woman, but if anything serious developed, my interest in polyamory should be known. Check.
I love fellow readers; enjoy trading books and titles, reading out loud, etc. Bonus points for David Brin, Sheri Tepper, Octavia Butler, big idea books in general.
Do you enjoy Buffy the Vampire Slayer, 6 Feet Under, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, Pulp Fiction, Platoon, Dead Poets Society and the Big Lebowski? Not a deal breaker if you don't; but each of these resonated with me strongly in their time and seem somewhat representative of my outlook/sense of humor.
Almost everything else is in the ball park. Meaning, I may cringe slightly if you must listen to Brittany Spears every day, but will gladly look the other way if you can do the same with my occasional need to play Rage Against the Machine or Alice in Chains very loudly. And I actually like her cover of My Perogrative.
Interest in volunteering, talking politics, drinking coffee, getting involved as an activist, awareness of one's environmental impact, kink friendly, sex positive, ethics and treating people well, Town Hall lectures, poetry slams, hiking, camping, canoeing, kayaking; any or all of these are good things! Or introduce me to something new; let's talk..
What catches your eye? If you saw me in the grocery store, I would probably be moving to a beat of some kind, either what's playing on their speakers, whatever I am humming or whistling, or my ipod. If you saw me in the library, I would be in the history, science fiction or kids section. If you saw me at the playground, I would always be aware of where my boy was, trying to find the balance between letting him learn things safely and hovering too close. If you saw me at a friends game night, I would be mostly listening, jumping in at times with something droll, taking it all in.
Where would I see you? What would catch my eye? You might be the woman on the bus, because you care enough about conservation that you gave up your car, and then discovered how fascinating the bus is. How it fosters community.
Or you are the person who knows a dozen obscure, interesting, quirky corners of the city, and where to find the perfect $5 meal, and the perfect place to enjoy it.
But this is all just an outline, a sketch, I think we never know what makes people work or spark until we try it.