Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I enjoy long, multifaceted conversations with someone who is well
read and able to consider and respect different perspectives. I
view having debates and discussions as one of the fastest ways to
get to know someone because it reveals their inner thoughts and
decision making processes, what is truly important to them, what
has shaped their lives and most importantly who they would like to
be in the future.
NB: If an intellectual woman intimidates you, if you don't believe
in personal growth, I am not for you.
A few highlights:
I have been told that I have a great sense of humour. Engage me in
conversation and you will be able to decide for yourself.
I love sun, fresh air and activity. Don't you agree that one's
health should be cherished and nurtured?
While I adore time with loved ones, I also need time to myself to
Travel is one of my foremost pleasures and I am very fortunate that
my profession allows me to.
I enjoy the symphony, and as long as it is possible, I attend one
in every major city I visit particularly if they are playing one of
my favourite composers or pieces. You will also find me in art
galleries and museums. And you, Sir, where will I find you?
I have a great passion for learning and I delight in keeping my
brain engaged. Do you think that learning about yourself and about
others and about existing systems and how to improve these systems
should be one of mankind's most important pursuits?
For complete relaxation I exercise, listen to music, cook something
new, take walks/hike, spend time with my funniest and most positive
friends. These activities clear and/or refreshes my mind. What do
I appreciate romantic gestures like flowers and candle light
dinners from time to time, or at random times. So, surprise me! :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people comfortable and being a confidant.
Absorbing information and applying what I have learned.
Quick witted banter.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Various parts of my body. For men, it's whatever they love...hair,
breasts, lips, butt,... It sounds crude, but it is true.
As for women and from what I have been told: hair, breasts and my
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I am a voracious reader so we will just have to talk about my
favourite books. The same goes for movies. TV is a train wreck
these days and my food taste is varied.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family and friends.
Intellectual activities including reading academic journals, BOOKS
and having intelligent conversation!
Laptop with music
Independence and purpose
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
It's much better to get things done rather than thinking about
them. So here is what I am spending a lot of time on these
Doing whatever I can to ensure that my aspirations come true.
Meeting people and learning as much as I can about others and
myself through my interaction with them. We can learn much from
being open to others. While understanding doesn't always lead to
acceptance, being a little less ignorant than we were a day ago or
a few moments ago is an achievement.
Listening and trying not to become desensitized.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There are no typical Fridays with me. It depends on:
My geographical location.
What my week was like.
Who I want to see (if anyone) at the time.
This means that I could be browsing a book store, shopping, at the
cinema or the theatre, watching a movie at home, at a classical
performance, reading, resting, listening to music while browsing
the internet for worthwhile reading material or random rubbish,
having drinks with friends, having tea or coffee with
friends/co-workers, studying (yes, sad but true... at least I never
have to worry about passing exams), having dinner out, making
dinner at home... I think you get the picture.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If I like you I will tell you my naughtiest secret but not before
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you are someone unafraid of working hard to realize his full
potential. An intelligent man who loves to learn, is patient and
maybe even more on the quiet side but loves long multifaceted
conversations. Someone honest and someone I can trust.
I am drawn to men who are unafraid to share thoughts and goals with
me and also comfortable with being intimate and affectionate.
Be open, unafraid, honest and direct. How else can we hope to learn
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