If you don't: I am the girl at the bar that shows up in jeans and a superhero shirt, dances atop the bar (Yes I've done it), and manages to do it all without ever drinking booze, and without needing to get freaky with strange guys. If it makes my friends laugh, or helps them let loose, I'm game.
It takes me time to feel close to people. This includes contact frequency and prioritizing time for people. But I am optimistic, chatty, I try to be reliable about eventual response (as I have time) and I am friendly. I'm also terrible at small talk, but friendly and willing to have a long deep conversation.
I should say, I've been in long relationships. I come from a family of highschool sweethearts and grandparents who were happily married their whole lives. I am very comfortable with prioritizing for a relationship. As strange as this sounds, this means:
I am just on here to meet as friends.
I'm not pushy, I'm not in a rush. I don't need a relationship to define the success of my life. I am looking for a confident, laid back, funny and adventurous equal. If by some chance we become best friends over the course of time, and we would be good as more, we should definitely take it from there, no holds barred.