I find dating in my 40’s to be more complicated than it was years
ago. I think we’re both more aware of what we can live with and
what we can’t. I believe love is limitless. I don’t really expect
to find everything I need in one other person. I identify as
polyamorous but find that I’m willing to be monogamous if someone
that has my heart needs me to be. I prefer to make friends and see
where things go from there. Openness and transparency are a big
deal for me. Drama and jealousy have no place in a relationship. I
want relationships that don't have to be defined, that meld well
with the crazy world around me while opening up new venues I may
have never considered.
If you look at the description of an ENTP personality in a Meyers
Briggs test, you’ll know many of my strengths and weaknesses. I’m a
water baby and am surprised I still don’t live at the ocean. I love
anything outdoors and enjoy hiking and backpacking.
I've been single and dating for the last five years after a 20+
year marriage. The kids are young adults now or heading there
quickly. It’s time to find life’s next chapter.