Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hello! Let me start this out by making this to where you get the
words coming out my mouth. If you think that we are just going to
get down with one another and you call me baby, beautiful, or
sweetheart; I am going to give in and you are going to hook up with
me, THINK AGAIN! I want someone I connect with actually. Sex is a
secondary thing. I find that this website is depressing and what I
am looking for is impossible. To find someone that actually would
like to be with me or get to know me is the mission. My time for a
relationship is limited. You will only have a small amount of time
to impress me. If you are to send me a message then, please do so,
and be respectable. I do know where the block feature is and I will
use it. I have respect for myself and expect you to have respect
for me too. I always know who reads my profile and who does not
based on their response. If you have a girlfriend, go away and go
buy her some flowers. Thanks!
Let me start again and let me make this more about who I truly am
when I go to bed. I am the daughter of a musician and my mother is
an artist and jewelry maker. At the early age of 11 my parents got
divorced. I went to live with my grandmother. Grandma Georgia had
been a widow since my grandpa Alva died on April 21st, 1982. She
was never with another man and lived alone. I spent so much time
believing there was love in the world.
My boyfriend was murdered in the October 28th, 1991 while I was in
Peoria at the Metallica Black album concert. It would take a long
time before I was ever able to attend a Metallica show again. Next
time I saw them it was the year 2000 at the Summer Sanitarium
My grandma was my everything. I lived with her until she died on
Easter Sunday of 2001. I only know one person that knows loss as I
know and some days I wish he would call me.
I took a job on the OZZFest in 2001 and I was off on the first tour
I would ever work. My life consisted of going from being rich to
being broke overnight as I never inherited any money when grandma
died. I had been a bit of a bad girl in the eyes of my family. In
many ways I was! Admittedly! I was the girl that drank alcohol,
smoked cigarettes, and never committed to a schedule. I could never
keep a boyfriend. I was the girl they talked about and spread
rumors about. I am the girl that never gave a shit what they said.
After getting kicked out of my dad's house I relocated to
Clearwater FL. But that never lasted long because dad began to have
issues in Illinois and I went home. I stayed there for almost 10
years while I was a parent to my son.
I moved back to Los Angeles in 2010 when my son turned 13, and I
have now as of June 13th 2015 I have been here 4 years and never
went back to Illinois.
I am only left with the scars of the people I knew that hurt me and
those I thought would understand me. I have only met one person I
thought might understand on here. He and I do not speak any longer.
It is as if we do not know each other. In a room there is always
room for the two of us. I think I need friends before I need
March 27th 2015 my son's father was murdered in a triple homicide
in St Louis. The saying everyone goes away hits home. I know not to
grow attached to anyone
If you think you will get me out, Here I sit in isolation in my
apartment. I am a photographer and I need to get back to my taking
Thank You for listening. I want to write a book about my life as it
has been crazy and I am only 41 years old.
I am working on a degree in Journalism and Mass Communication with
a Minor in Health Care Administration. I am planning for the future
and believe it is time to see the world. My son will be 18 next
year. It is time I get to living because at 41 I should appreciate
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am so tired of the total head trip. People on here are of diverse
culture. Let me explain what it is that I want from this OKCupid
experience. Number one, I am meeting new and cool people. I like to
meet people that can hold a sentence together. You need to be
rather intelligent to be with me. I am far from ignorant and I
pride myself on the strictest of discipline. I consider myself an
overachiever in everything. I want to do everything better than
expected. When I have friends I keep them forever because people
seem to like me.
I am a rock journalist. I write about music as it completes me and
there are a lot of worthy bands on the scene. I got tired of not
using my gifts that I have been given. I am learning so much. When
I walk in a room things seem to come together. The people I need to
have in my life are coming in like destiny. There are things that I
desire. If you are in my head and it is a open book to you, read it
then. Read me like a book. If you ask me questions and I do not
answer you, then that means I do not trust you. There are people in
my life that I trust. I think about the decisions I make and I
think about the impact on others. A lot of what I do is not totally
If you want a relationship with me and I am not ready for that sort
of a relationship then please respect me. I am about to experiment
with my sexuality and my mind in many ways. I am learning how to be
vocal in my needs and desires.
So, like I said earlier; if you cannot form a sentence when you
communicate with me and hold intelligent conversation, please do
I want steak dinner! I want breakfast in bed! How does that work
for ya? I like strawberries and chocolate. I spend more time doing
homework than I do anything. At least put forth an effort to thrill
me. I like extravagant gifts.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am revising my profile......sorry! I am good at everything I do.
I classify myself to be an overachiever.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My very bright hazel eyes. I am generally a very happy person. I
smile and laugh a lot of the time!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I really like heavy metal music the most ! It seems to be what I
own the most in my collection! I also love to collect music and
movie CD's and DVD! I have been involved in the creation of music
throughout my life. My father and mother were what I classify to of
been hippies. My father brought me up listening to a lot of what is
now considered classic rock. I love the psychedelic sounds of the
music from back then! The Moody Blues, Pink Floyd, can be equally
appreciated! I do not enjoy reading for a past time! I read to
learn something new. I am into art of a darker period! I would say
that the art of the Gothic era seems to touch me personally! I can
draw and paint! I can even weld. I think that if it was necessary
though, I could save my life from all of my medical knowledge of
the human body. I am pretty good at figuring out what is wrong with
the sick by reading their symptoms.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Grandma as my Spirit Guide.
A good day at the movies
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future is what I dream about! Not to the point that it is like
an obsession but to the point that I am headed in the right
direction here! Going to College is quite trying though because it
takes up a lot of my time! I think I will truthfully reap the
rewards when I have my degree. I have another 2 years to go. I take
my schooling very seriously. I want to be successful and help
people. It is my life ambition. I am now going to school to study
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home studying, or watching a Movie! I could be at the movie
theatre though if there is something good at IMAX. I am quite the
homebody! You may catch me at the library or a Starbucks! I love to
walk up and down Hollywood Blvd looking at the talented people. It
is never the same when I go there! Every face is different, every
single time. I found a awesome store to shop at there too.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I learned how to keep secrets cause anything between two people was
never meant for the world. I do not have a jealous bone in my body.
There better be more than enough of you to go around. If you are
not a juggler please do not juggle women. If you cannot keep us all
happy there will be failure. I am a serial monogamist. This is
where guys get afraid. This means that I am with one man when I am
with him, and what we choose to do is very dear to me. I am not
going to flip out like I once did at the suggestion of new ideas. I
am in love with a dream. A total fantasy and the man in my dreams
has no competition because he is as perfect as they come. Sometimes
fantasy is better than reality. If no one is talking about it then
the world will never be the wiser how the dream ends or if it ever
ends. And if it is happening I am the happiest woman alive. The
only person that kills your dreams is you. It took years of
heartache and crying to become self-aware. I am the most broken you
can break a person. Just never lie to me because this is where we
will not be friends any longer and goodbye is the worst thing to
say in anger. No one likes to part angry. Make-up sex rules but I
am a hard person to reach when you have become lost to me. In this
world I have met very few people that I want. Please be charming
and please have a 10 year plan. If you have no ambition please get
lost. This man in my dreams is strong, powerful, and successful. He
is honest about what turns him on and what he wants. A man in my
world is worthy of me. No longer do I settle for anything less. I
know my worth. You could join me. We shall see. Disconnection from
people, places, and things is my strong point as I can walk away
You should message me if
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You think we would get along. If you have jealousy issues and you
feel that my textbook poses some sort of threat to our friendship,
you need to go get some counseling for your issues! I will admit it
can be intimidating. You need to understand I have to read nearly
100 pages a week! I am in accelerated classes!
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