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OakmontAlex

27 M Oakmont, PA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:53am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I'm never entirely sure what to say in these kinds of things (yeah, I know, that's so original), but here's a shot:

I like to think of myself as quirky, positive, and loyal. I'm one of those nice guys, the kind who feels bad saying that because it sounds like I'm bragging or something. I'm a big nerd, and I'm proud of it, but I'm not like the characters in Big Bang Theory - I just appreciate and understand those characters.

I like to think I have a good sense of humor and have been known to be funny. A lot of people tell me that they were intimidated by me before we became friends, but I don't get it. I think of myself as such a softy, that I find that hard to imagine. I believe that chivalry is not dead, and I will insist on holding the door open for you and picking up the tab on as many dates as I can, not out of some sense of misogyny or misplaced obligation, but because I want to - it feels like the right thing to do.

I'm one of those weird people who likes both Star Wars and Star Trek, and I'd have a hard time choosing between the two. Seriously.

I've been in a couple of serious relationships, and I tend not to date around a lot. That being said, I'm not necessarily looking to jump right into something serious right now, but rather ease into it. I'm looking for a genuinely nice girl who I can have fun with, who I can talk about politics with, who isn't afraid to disagree with me but respects me even when she does. I'm looking for a friend to go to theater or to movies with, who is equally willing to sit through and discuss afterwards both a masterpiece play and a shoot-em-up action flick. Someone who can make a graceful transition from serious to goofy and back again, someone who appreciates and shares my sense of humor, someone who feels equally at ease at a swanky restaurant or a dive bar. I'm looking for someone who will help make me a better person, and who will let me do the same for them.
What I’m doing with my life
My primary occupation (at least in terms of importance) is as an independent theater producer - I recently started my own company, and I hope to grow that business. I also have a "day job" that pays the bills, working for a small private equity firm.

When I'm not working, I am an active volunteer for my local high school's arts programs, working with both the marching band and the spring musical. I'm also an active alumnus of my college, serving on the board for the alumni association, as well as on the board of the alumni organization for the theater group I participated in in college.
The first things people usually notice about me
When I was in 7th grade and in the Jr./Sr. High School musical, a lot of the senior girls told me I had pretty eyes. Clearly, 14 years later that has stuck with me!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My favorite books are Harry Potter, Lord of the Rings/The Hobbit/The Silmarillion, The Belgariad and The Malloreon by David Eddings, The Chronicles of Narnia, anything by Bernard Cornwell (historical fiction). I always have a strong desire to read the classics and yet find myself never getting around to it.

I love the Star Wars movies, the Star Trek movies (except Star Trek V: The Final Frontier - that one's pretty awful), Indiana Jones (I have a pretty good Indy costume that I break out for Halloween), James Bond (not a huge fan of Roger Moore though), Harry Potter (yes, I love the books, and I still enjoy the movies), Lord of the Rings (and I'm really looking forward to The Hobbit), Moonstruck (this is a classic, and you should see it!)

I was a latecomer, but I absolutely love Friday Night Lights. Star Trek, obviously, and recently Battlestar Galactica (the 2003 reboot, as well as the prequel Blood and Chrome). There are a ton of British comedy shows that I love (Blackadder, Yes Minister, Are You Being Served, Keeping Up Appearances, to name a few). I'm trying to get into The Walking Dead, which I'm really enjoying but get creeped out watching at night by myself (wow, that makes me sound super cool).

My favorite music, and the stuff I listen to most often, is orchestral movie scores, particularly John Williams or any of the composers like him, and Broadway showtunes. I also really love Frank Sinatra and Dean Martin, and any music from the Big Band era. If I have to listen to more modern "pop" music I guess I would choose stuff from the 80s but I really don't know anything about it. I recognize that this makes me a bit unusual, but hey, maybe you can introduce me to something cool that I'm not already listening to!

Finally, food. Well, I'm Italian, and it's really hard to beat my mom's cooking. I'm not the world's most adventurous eater, but I'm willing to try new stuff (though I normally draw the line at shellfish - seriously, lobster? It's a big bug from the ocean. Give me a break), and even if I don't like to eat it I'll never stop you from eating it! I'm pretty handy at making sandwiches, I make awesome salad dressing from scratch, and a really mean tiramisu. I'd love to find someone to cook for me - no, not because I'm a chauvinist, but because I love good homemade food and I'm not great a cooking it myself. I'm really good at doing the dishes, so that's a pretty fair trade, eh?
The six things I could never do without
My family (cliche, but true!)
Books
My Netflix account
My collection of Action/Sci-Fi/Fantasy DVDs (remember I said I was a nerd?)
The theatre (does spelling it that way make me pretentious?)
Um....I can't think of a sixth thing, so these 5 will have to do!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how to get where I'm going.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I kind of got badgered into this whole online dating thing, and I'm not 100% sure that I'm ready for it. I decided to give it a shot, but I don't know how often I'll check it. If you reach out to me and I don't respond right away, please don't be offended.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating