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ObieBear

39 M Aurora, IL

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:45am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Married
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I'm a mischievous, intelligent, spiritually bent, polyamorous, gamer, geek. Unlike the stereotype that summons though, I am active. I enjoy obstacle racing, climbing, swing dancing, and yoga.

I have been known to run along bannisters at three in the morning or sing Les Misérables or Little Shop of Horrors with my friends whilst swinging from a tree. I might be painting childrens faces at the mall, hugging strangers at the airport, or doing yoga in the parking lot. It's not that I have no concept of socially acceptable behavior, it's that I generally don't have any respect for it dictating how I should behave. I believe that we build walls to protect ourselves for good reasons but that they become self-fulfilling prophecies and need to be reexamined regularly.

I am politically opinionated but not actively so. I tilt left in most things: pro-education, pro-marriage equality, even pro-choice. Especially in the last one I mostly believe that the government should butt the hell out. Don’t legislate my morality.

I enjoy theater and will jump at a chance to see a show. From shakespeare in the park to Broadway, it’s always amazing to see someone pour themselves into a character.

I love games of most sorts, but especially board games and card games. You are almost guaranteed to snag my attention with a game night.

I do have a quieter side that you'll see if we get to be friends. I am spiritual, classified as roughly buddhist-agnostic-pagan... if that can be considered any kind of classification. I have gone on 10-day silent meditation retreats if that gives you some ideas.

For a peek behind the curtain, I also have kinky and sensual sides, but I'll reserve those for more intimate conversations.

I would love to find someone to share these adventures with. Drop me a message and we’ll see where the rabbit hole goes. (I don't pay OKC so rating me won't get through, don't be shy)
What I’m doing with my life
My career is as a tech exec for my fifth entrepreneurship. For a while there I was on the living to work side but lately I have been more on the working to live side. I am constantly exploring, absorbing, redefining, and experiencing.

Ultimately, I am being the best dad I can be. Then I am running amok.
I’m really good at
Rocking out. Rolling with the punches. Snuggling. Hugs. Breakfasts.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I am hugging them already. I have been accused of being overly friendly. (no worries, I'm a flirt but mostly harmless)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm a geek. There is a list of books, movies, etc that goes with all the geeks that if you are familiar you'll recognize instantly. Insert it here.
The six things I could never do without
Games (cards, video, & board. not the heart)
Yoga (acro and partner recently)
Dancing (mostly I am trying to learn swing dancing but I love going out and just getting down)
Smiles / Laughter / Giggles with friends
Sensual Intimacy (touch, snuggles, soft caresses, wild sex, etc)
My Kids (it's true)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I saw someone put up that they "don't do the public private" thing. I love that. If you ask me a private question I'll probably tell you.

In the interest of playing the game however... I love dance competition movies. *hangs head* Throw in a love story and some awesome climatic finale where they dance their asses off to destroy the competition and I will be doing flips off bannisters and pretending I have a clue about dancing all night.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–44
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You are having, or looking for, a game night.
You want to go dancing or do some yoga.
You have a penchant for movie nights and cuddling.
You know what SF0 is.
You enjoy being silly in unconventional spaces.
You are looking for a safe-ish pocket friend to take along on an adventure.