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Oblio4u

28 / M / gay / Single

Laramie, Wyoming

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 8" (1.72m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Pisces and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), German (Poorly)

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I am frackin amazing, humble, and fond of cheese.

My Self-Summary

I am an angst filled 20-something trapped in a town too small for me. I love to travel and I love the bustle and energy of cities but something tells me that I would eventually miss the small town charm I've grown up with. I'm still trying to figure out what I want to "be" when I grow up but I don't feel like I'm blank, empty, or wasting my time just because I haven't figured that out yet.

I have a crazy dog. I have a huge tub of Legos in my living room since I'm not sure where else to keep it. I make awesome chai from scratch. I have a cake recipe that has been in my family for at least four generations. I liked history until grad school ruined it for me. I just bought my first Mac and I love it! I love yoga even if it does make me feel a bit cliche. I like to make random lists of things. Picking three words to describe myself was really stressful. Don't read them.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm working at a job that I only like in theory. I love talking about it but when I'm actually there I am bored to tears. I'm ready for a change!

I’m really good at

Creating great meals using whatever happens to be on hand. Making the kitchen look like it was ransacked by a band of thieves looking for pirate treasure. Listening. Understanding. Writing. Blending in/ standing out - depending on the situation.

The first things people usually notice about me

You tell me. Really.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books - I haven't read a lot since grad school. I used to read a lot of science fiction and fantasy and before that I actually had good taste in books! I need to make time to read more.

Movies - I will watch and enjoy just about anything but if a 13 year old girl likes it... I probably own it.

Music - My taste in music changes daily and is across the board but I probably listen mostly to rock and pop.

Food - I love to eat! I love to cook! I love to cook for people but I have a hard time cooking for fussy eaters. If you love sushi then we'll probably get along!

The six things I could never do without

The companionship of someone/ something (often my dog)
Food (I love to eat)
Writing
My laptop
Friendship
Conversation

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Oh... what don't I think about? My friends tell me that I think too much... which makes me think about that and then I worry that I think too much. If you can over analyze something then I probably will! But to answer the question... I think about my future a lot. I like to make plans for things that might not ever happen. I like to dream.

On a typical Friday night I am

Probably being looserly in my living room with my dog. Give me a reason to go out!

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I hate fresh parsley. Please don't send a lynch mob after me...

You should message me if

If you bothered to read this far. If you aren't a total freak, I'll probably reply.