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ObscureReferenc

30 M San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

  • All who like bi men
  • Ages 23–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 10:34am
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
Relationship Status
Married
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, German (Okay), C++ (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Computer hacker, retired aspiring musician. Half-robot. More Apple Kid, less Orange Kid.

My amazing better half and I, while quite happy with our relationship with each other, are also adventurous individuals, trying to find ourselves on http://www.obsidianfields.com/lj/nonmonogamy2.5.gif - so far it's gone really well.
What I’m doing with my life
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I make EXE Files all day. I really enjoy it, in a "this has sucked up my life for years and oh shit maybe I should get other hobbies too fuck it this is awesome" kind of way. I get paid to help people come together to program, which both fulfills my "Art for Art's Sake" aspirations, but also with a purpose that makes the world a more awesome place.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm really good at being easygoing and communicating well with people. Too good sometimes, to my own detriment.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have really blue eyes. I get a lot of compliments about it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Before Sunset is one of my favorite movies, for complicated reasons involving a girl.

As to music, I've got graphs!
http://cl.ly/image/2Y2G0P1P2X2u/content

And recently:
http://cl.ly/image/1j3X1V3D3d1B/content

Louie and HBO's Girls are my favorite TV shows lately, they kind of remind me of each other, both in that they are a reminder that life is a little fucked up

The last book I read recently was The Wind-Up Bird Chronicle, after years of only reading non-fiction. The book was fucking great and I forgot how great reading fiction is
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Laptop
Interesting, challenging people in my life
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Philosophy and ones and zeroes and sex and art. So really I guess all four of those round to "the mechanisms of human expression"
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Reading quotes on Wikiquote and contemplating their meaning, or watching episodes of Star Trek Voyager
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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"I am an excitable person who only understands life lyrically, musically, in whom feelings are much stronger as reason. I am so thirsty for the marvelous that only the marvelous has power over me. Anything I can not transform into something marvelous, I let go. Reality doesn’t impress me. I only believe in intoxication, in ecstasy, and when ordinary life shackles me, I escape, one way or another."
You should message me if
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If you know why love is an astronaut. Alternatively, if you want to practice your German, I'm not completely terrible at it :)