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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
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5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Post grad
Might want kids
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I would like to think I can't be summed up in a few words, and there's no substitute for meeting in person to discover chemistry - but so far OkC has been better than I would've expected....

I think those qualities that seem to come up in so many "message me if" sections, like Honest, Nice/Kind, Trustworthy (and Not Shirtless in Your Pics) should go without saying. I am generally laid back and easy-going but may surprise you every now and then with my intensity or a bit of an edge.

I get along with, and am attracted to, all different types of people, but there has to be an intellectual connection. Definitely looking for a truly exceptional woman; we should have great conversations and be able to enjoy each other's company without saying anything at all.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
living life as if it's real...

I seriously love to travel, and to travel not so seriously.

I am always up for a dining adventure (I have been known to go a little overboard on the foodie thing -- but I'm also a bit of a health nut most of the time), from hole-in-the-wall to high end.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
cooking Thanksgiving dinner for my extended family (up to a total of 23 people this year!)


enjoying the moment

staying calm -- or at least appearing to -- under pressure
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my smile; and my voice (it's deeper than it looks)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
love to try all different types of food

(recent) books: The Master and Margarita, Anna Karenina, Tipping Point
(less recent): The Old Man and the Sea, The Stranger (L'Etranger - even better in French), Wind-Up Bird Chronicles, Siddartha

movies: American Beauty, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Do the Right Thing, Little Miss Sunshine, the Graduate, Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon

music: Simon, Dylan, Springsteen, Leonard Cohen....

SEINFELD (I know that's tv but couldn't leave it out)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
good food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why so many NYers are up so late on OkCupid!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
hangin' out
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I will tell almost anything if you ask the right way ;-)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
...anything you saw here brought even a hint of a smile to your face.

...or you want to take the time to get to know a little more about me.