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OceaNova-Dancer

23 / F / Straight / Single

Portland, Oregon

Her Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 1:45pm
Ethnicity
Native American, Hispanic / Latin, White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and laughing about it
Sign
Taurus and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Less than $20,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, Spanish, French, Japanese

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My self-summary
Oh hello there!
Music and movement are pretty much my life. I have spent some time in Japan and have been a martial artist since I was a wee lass. I like all the things! I have some large tattoos that I just realized you can't see because I don't have pictures of them on here. I'm originally from the bay area, CA. I'm a musician, writer, make-up artist, dancer, singer, fitness and body mod enthusiast, human rights activist and anything my heart is set on doing, I will do. I'm a real go-getter... My life is filled with opportunities and dreams that I plan to achieve in some way, and I believe anything is possible.

When it comes to a relationship, I'm really looking for someone who appreciates me. I'm a strong individual, and I seek the same. Physical attention and emotional support are vital to become close to me. I'm slightly more responsive with touch: being held, embracing, my arm locked with yours, back scratchies - I blame the acquiescence on my French side. I'm just looking for a sweet man to make me smile. I'm very generous, affectionate and fun!
My "Personality" page sums me up actually pretty darn well I'd say. I'd rearrange a couple categories but in general traits and such, it's close.

I am a transgender woman focused on completing my transition in the near future. The road has been tough yet rewarding, and I couldn't be prouder of myself. If you can't appreciate my strength, I'll see none of yours.

If there's anything y'all would like to know, please ask! I'm as open as a book.

I have amazing people in my life. onthemicha, Muddud, stardusty06, saulcon, 420yoloswagtron and BriSheFlee.

Oh, and I cuss like a sailor. Just lettin' ya know.

I am hardworking, flexible, and everywhere
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to keep busy, yet keeping my stress level down. Dancing, laughing, loving, trying to keep everything together. Just got one of my dream gigs producing a Burlesque variety show at a nice dive in the SE! In my free time I'm keeping up with my blogs and music and DJ at a stripclub.
I want to make it very clear that I am looking for friends or a date that seems like we have potential for a relationship. I'm all down for anti slut-shaming and feminism through sexuality, but I am not a practitioner of "free love."
I’m really good at
Well...hm. I like to think driving, and keeping a straight face immediately after I laugh really hard.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm usually told, after they find out how old I am, the first thing they noticed about me was the "confident" and/or "mature" air about myself, hence leading them to think I'm older than I am. At least it's not the wrinkles =P

At first, it truly bothered me that I didn't get one of those messages from the staff reading "You are in the top half of the most attractive users on OKCupid." Then, I remembered that this clearly depicts my middle to high school years >

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LKCVLCKUL_Y&feature=related

Really must have done a number on my complexion.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
A) The Enchanted Forest series by Patricia C. Wrede, The Witch of Portobello by Paulo Coelho and Kitchen by Banana Yoshimoto. Old favorites never die! I could read them forever. I finished Bossypants and need a new read. Suggestions?

B) Pan's Labrynth, Amélie, I'm a Cyborg But That's OK, The Neverending Story, Strangers With Candy, Run Lola Run, House of Flying Daggers, Mean Girls, Return to Oz, The King and the Clown, etc. Essentially, foreign films are my favs.

C) I listen to nearly everything. Seriously. Not a joke. Here are my recent obsessions: Woodkid, Phildel, Lana Del Rey, Iggy Azalea, Miike Snow, Azealia Banks, Cœur de pirate, and some old favorites are Kathleen Battle, MSI, Rasputina, System of a Down, Tech N9ne, Yann Tiersen, The Beatles and a million more.

D) Any shape or form of potatoes, and anything cheesy, ha ha ha! Specifically Indian, Mexican, Japanese, Thai and Chinese.
The six things I could never do without
In no particular order:

•This one used to be coffee, but now it's cuddles. Now it's coffee again.
•Cheese
•My computer
•Friends
•Trees, I suppose
•And....music, of course.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Words that should be in the Scrabble dictionary.
On a typical Friday night I am
Probably dancing at the bar. Or being at the bar. Or playing videogames. Or songwriting. Or knitting. I could really do anything on a Friday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I tend to dress up confrontation with rhetoric, but I get the basic point across nevertheless...is that private enough?
Aaaand...yup. I'm a shoe person. Shoes shoes shoes everywhere.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 23–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're not closed minded. It really saddens me how many great conversations are ended because the other person didn't bother to read my profile. But if someone stops talking to me simply because I don't have a uterus than those aren't the people I want to be talking to anyway.