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23 Minneapolis, MN Genderqueer, Gender Nonconforming, Transmasculine, Non-binary

Genderqueer, Gender Nonconforming, Transmasculine, Non-binary

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 21-35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 3:57pm
Queer, Pansexual
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Average build
Other but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has cats
English (Fluently), German (Somewhat), Dutch (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Please use they or he pronouns for me. I do not respond to she pronouns, or anything in relation to being identified as a woman/female.

I am a midwest, awkward, queer, poly, kinky, zinester, activist, quirky, nerd. I swear I have an old cat queer soul because of how much I love cuddles and naps. I love to make stupid puns, smoke hookah as I listen to live local bands, drink bloody marys on the porch, have picnics in the park, finding creative outlets to express myself, and finding good food/cold press.
My aesthetic is fae 90's pop punk, queer fem, boy band look.

Right now I have a few casual/dating typeish relationships. I am not looking to add any more of those, but if it works out that way between you and I, I can make it work out. I am mainly looking for a primary of sorts. Of course, I could always use more friends/cuddle buddies.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I graduated from Beloit College with an education and youth studies: youth and society degree, minor in health and society.
I went to college wanting to be a sex educator.

I moved to the Twin Cities for my LVC year of service program. Loving it here, so now I am working at Caribou Coffee in the MPLS airport. Gonna volunteer at non profits in the afternoon.

Trying to continue to do roller derby.

Cuddling with my cat, Mouse. And trying to save the world through sexual health activism and intersectional feminism/queer activism.

Trying to be more sustainable. Make my own food. Etc.

Learning to be vegan for my housemate. I still like to treat myself to my beef sticks and cheese curds.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
dressing up for theme parties, activism, making bad puns, making bloody marys, playing the oboe, colorguard, kicking your ass as Talim in Soul Caliber II for Gamecube, board/card games, stress cleaning, and dancing/singing badly to pop songs in the car and kitchen.
And, making the best damn bloody marys.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am very enthusiastic about my ideas and beliefs. I have a ray of sunshine about me. I tend to be a bit shy at first as a heads up, but I am a social person at heart.

My ever changing hair color and style.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Kate Bornstein and Ellen Hopkins are my favorite authors. I read fiction , manga, scifi/fantasy, queer theory, sexual health, and comic books. Been reading about the fae again.

I really enjoy watching movies with friends. I like Disney, kid movies, scifi/fantasy, romantic comedies, dramas.

I watch way too much TV. I like the same genres as I do in movies, and also British shows, action, and sitcoms. My favorite shows are Friends, Orange is the New Black, Dead Like Me, 2 Broke Girls, Bob's Burgers, and Parks and Rec.

The only genre of music I do not listen to is country. I love going to local music venues and learning about local bands. If it has hookah, that is a plus.
Ke$ha is my love, and I do enjoy listening to my 90's pop punk still.

Podcasts: Welcome to Night Vale, Thrilling Adventure Hour

My favorite video games are Prince of Persia, Soul Caliber, Harvest Moon, Cooking Mama, Katamari Damacy (sp?), and Resident Evil 4.

I also enjoy anime from time to time.

I would rather spend money on food and drinks than buy souvenirs when I travel. I used to be picky on spicy food and foods with lots of spices in them, but I am getting better. Seafood and french onion soup are my favorite. Magners hard cider, bloody marys, and cold presses are my favorite drinks.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Social life/cuddles
Creative outlets
Brunch aka Bloody Marys
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sexuality, gender, sex.
Going back to Amsterdam and bike riding in the rain.
Thinking about ideas for my future zines.
Making to-do lists.
Opening a bloody mary bar.
Maybe going to barber school.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Attempting to be social. Not too many events happen on Friday nights. If there is a dance party or just a hangout queer thing I tend to try to go.

I used to go to hookah bars and local music venues a lot. I would love to do that again. And also drinking games to shitty movies. And tabletop games.

Cuddling with Mouse while going to bed at 8pm if I got the 4am shift on Saturday. Woot first shift coffee shop life.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I do not know how to drive or how to swim.
I went to a fetish play party/dance party with my Amsterdam host parents.
I do not like peanut butter and chocolate together.
I am afraid of death.
You should message me if
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You wanna talk queer things and sexual health activism. Queer became a hobby of mine... I didn't choose the queer life, the queer life chose me.

You want to go skating! I need to practice falling on my ass some more, and getting those cross overs down.

You know a place with good french onion soup. You know where I can get Magners on tap, and where there are unique bloody marys.

You have some RPGs or DnD games going on.

You wanna trade zines!

You also enjoy dancing and singing around the kitchen as you drink wine and cook.

You wanna talk about cats with me.