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22 F Saint Paul, MN

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  • Ages 21–35
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My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:00pm
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
When drinking
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly), Dutch (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I do not identify as female or bisexual. I use queer for my gender identity and sexual identity. I use they/them/their's or ze/zer/zer's for pronouns. Do not use lady/girl/woman/female, and so forth for my identity. I have been thinking of changing from female to male on here, but I am still in the process of exploring my trans masculine identity.

I am a midwest, awkward, queer, poly, zinester, activist, quirky, nerd. I swear I have an old cat queer soul because of how much I love cuddles and naps and I will be that crazy cat queer when I am old. I love to make stupid puns, smoke hookah as I listen to live local bands, drink bloody marys on the porch, have picnics in the park, finding creative outlets to express myself, finding good food, and queering life up. And I am a sucker for mustaches with clothes, and other material items... If I could grow a full mustache, I would.
What I’m doing with my life
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I graduated from Beloit College with an education and youth studies: youth and society degree, minor in health and society.

I went to college wanting to be a sex educator.
I am now looking into being an activist researcher, so I am hoping to do non-profit work before going to graduate school. Of course it would be in the queer community and sexual health.

I am in the Twin Cities for a year. I am in the Lutheran Volunteer Corps, and working at a non-profit LGBT faith site, yet I am a person not of faith, but I am hella queer. I may decide to live here, but who knows what is next.
I’m really good at
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dressing up for theme parties, activism, making bad puns, making bloody marys, making fruity/sweet mix drinks, playing the oboe, colorguard, kicking your ass as Talim in Soul Caliber II for Gamecube, Magic the Gathering, board games, stress cleaning, creative outlets, and dancing/singing badly to pop songs in the car and kitchen.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am very enthusiastic about my ideas and beliefs. I have a ray of sunshine about me. I tend to be a bit shy at first as a heads up, but I am a social person at heart.

If you have seen me on the street, you have probably seen my Chicago stride and/or bitch face.

My ever changing hair color and style. I get bored so easily now, but I realized purple hair is part of my identity.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Kate Bornstein and Ellen Hopkins are my favorite authors. I read fiction , manga, scifi/fantasy, queer theory, sexual health, and comic books.

I really enjoy watching movies with friends. I like Disney, kid movies, scifi/fantasy, romantic comedies, dramas, and sometimes indie. I've been trying to watch more documentaries.

I watch way too much TV. I like the same genres as I do in movies, and also British shows, action, and sitcoms. My favorite shows are Friends, Orange is the New Black, Dead Like Me, 2 Broke Girls, Bob's Burgers, and Firefly.

The only genre of music I do not listen to is country. My favorite songs are 'Meet Virgina' by Train, 'I don't care' by Icona Pop, and 'Take A Walk' by Passion Pit.
Podcasts: Welcome to Night Vale, Thrilling Adventure Hour

My favorite video games are Prince of Persia, Soul Caliber, Harvest Moon, Cooking Mama, Pokemon, and Resident Evil 4.

Anime: I will just list off who I have cosplayed as: Ichigo from Tokyo Mew Mew, Nana K. from Nana, Hazuki from Moonphase, Sailor Venus from Sailor Moon, Pinkie Pie and Luna from My Little Pony, Panty from Panty and Stocking.

I would rather spend money on food and drinks than buy souvenirs when I travel. I used to be picky on spicy food and foods with lots of spices in them, but I am getting better. Seafood and french onion soup are my favorite. Magners hard cider, bloody marys, and moscato white wine are my favorite drinks.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Social life/cuddles
Creative outlets
Personal computer
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sexuality, gender, sex.
Going back to Amsterdam and bike riding in the rain.
Thinking about ideas for my future zines.
Making to-do lists.
Wondering if people in the Twin Cities have seen my profile and recognize me on the streets.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Socializing with friends by going out to a party, a hookah bar, going out drinking, staying in and drinking while watching nerdy TV shows or B-rated horror movies, or just being Tumblr social friends by showing each other what we just reblogged.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I do not know how to drive or how to swim.
I used to eat boogers as a kid.
I went to a fetish play party/dance party with my Amsterdam host parents.
I do not like peanut butter and chocolate together.
You should message me if
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You wanna talk queer things and sexual health activism. Queer became a hobby of mine... I didn't choose the queer life, the queer life chose me.

You know a place with good french onion soup. You know where I can get Magners on tap, and where there are unique bloody marys.

You have some RPGs or DnD games going on.

You wanna trade zines!

You also enjoy dancing and singing around the kitchen as you drink wine and cook.