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Oceansidesunset

27 / F / straight / Single

Arlington, Massachusetts

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
Thin
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism but not too serious about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English

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I am silly, serious, and paradoxical.

My Self-Summary

I'm an easy-going person who can pretty much get along with anyone. But, there a few people I really clique with..........and yes that is all true even though that could be said for most people. Sometimes I feel lost without conversational depth while other times I just want to laugh at silly, twisted humor. Mostly, I feel like those 2 things don't have to be mutually exclusive.

What I’m doing with my life

That is always the question, huh? I work in sales with organic ingredients yet have a masters in counseling psychology (graduated in May). I'm on the look out for a job in my field....almost relocated in Cali in Aug. I'm into holistic health, thus the draw to the west, but Cali didn't quite feel right ( apparently I'm waaay too East Coast). So, in the mean time I'm doing some Reiki volunteering and eating organic chocolate at work (and yoga, and meditation, and you know, the general never-ending soul-searching).

I’m really good at

Making people feel good/laugh, swimming, dancing, being spontaneous, worrying then laughing at myself, painting, drawing, self-taught guitar, waterskiing, wannabe surfer (only tried it once - can't wait to try again), original nes...................trying too hard and then trying it lightly.

The first things people usually notice about me

Toss up between my curly hair and height (but who really knows what goes on in others heads?).

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Siddartha, many other non-Buddhist-related books, Forgetting Sarah Marshall, I heart Huckabees (and other dark comedies), Baracka, pretty much anything made by Tarantino, Mad Men, 6 Feet Under, The Roots, Radiohead, Daft Punk, Led Zep, basmati rice, peanut butter, sushi, more pretentious foods like Ethiopian and cantaloupe wrapped in prosciutto......and a big fan of Ole in Inman Square.

I must say - who doesn't like Eternal Sunshine? I think OkCupid should have it pre-loaded in this section for 20 and 30 somethings looking for love. It sums up all the beauty, pain, and humor that unfolds in relationships.

The six things I could never do without

Meaningful connection/intimacy, humor!, family, friendship...plethora of material blessings

I'm totally stealing this from someone elses list: hope. Is hope stealable? Whatever - definitely can't live without it.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Life, meaning, helping people, healthcare, consumerism, beauty, absurdity, boundaries, being outdoors as much as humanly possibly, wittiness...trying not to have a big ego or a little one either.

On a typical Friday night I am

Most Fridays I like to chill out after a long week. Snuggling up on the couch with the man of my dreams (could it be you??) before heading out to chill with friends would be even better.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I need to have better faith in this online dating scene.

You should message me if

You'd like to get to know me better, you are caring, fun, and want a long term relationship (and don't like to rush into things either). I really like meeting new people and creating fun times. Travelling and taking advantage of what the city has to offer is even better in good company. Oh, and if you like random trips to the beach at odd hours - right on.

Atheists need not apply. Been there, done that, it just doesn't work out.