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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 36-53
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 18
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Other and laughing about it
Dropped out of Space camp
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
English (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I'm not an intellectual. I just hang out with them It's like a club...

I really wanted to write a new essay about these sex robots being developed in Ireland, but I won't!

It turns out that I'm a sapiophile. This is not good. Do you know what hyper-intelligent women of Generation X are like? Fun is not the word I'm looking for. I need to rethink this...

There's nothing special about me. I'm just a man. My clever mind creates as many problems as it solves, and this little puzzle, dating in a small town in one's 40s has no intellectual solution, so I won't pretend that it does. I will make only this observation. The smartest people I know, the real rocket scientists among us generally have a good moral center but as students of the scientific method, they carefully curb their own narcissism. They know better than to believe in their own nonsense. And most of them would tell you that they are idiots, that they don't know anything about anything. I'm finding that this wisdom is a exceedingly rare trait and unfortunately, one I value highly.

Stephen Wright said something that stays with me. He made a serious short film in which he was a Union soldier about to hang for cowardice when he observes, "In looking back at my life, if I had it all to do again, I think I would have danced more. That and everything else...

I'm just looking for my dance partner. That's all I could want: A friend, a lover, a true equal who loves to dance. We all have our baggage. We all have our hangups. But on the dance floor, none of that matters. Just dance! Everyone is in search of a healing sort of love. I'd like to find a partner to grow with, to become the best people we can possibly be. But I know the answer's not here. It's in the down beat of the kick drum. It's in the howl of the wild fiddle solo and the stillness of the mind fishing at the lake. It's definitely not in the written word.

Good luck out there!
What I’m doing with my life
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October 2015. My life has turned a corner in big way. I have worked 60+ hour weeks since February, building my own little business, and now it is beginning to pay off, but I've also picked up a couple part-time jobs that demand my stronger skill sets, the kind of work I never thought I would find in Durango. Of course, I'm still very poor, but I would rather be poor and happy than an affluent slave. I've done that too...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
dusting myself off.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm a musician, so music would take all day.

Lets just say I'm open minded! I like Bluegrass, Folk, Rock & Roll, singer songwriters, old school Motown, Metal and I love oldies. I'm not big on rap, modern country, or anything with an auto-tuner!

Movies by genre:
Comedy - Blazing Saddles, Princess Bride & Better Off Dead
Horror - Phantasm, The Changeling, & Halloween
Drama - The Razor's Edge, Breaking Away, & The Right Stuff
Sci Fi - Blade Runner, Iron Skies & The Fifth Element
TV - Foyle's War, Band of Brothers, & Secrets of the Dead

Books that changed my life:
Dune, The Dancing Wu Li Masters (physics), & Strunk and White, The Elements of Style
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My super close friends
A superior sounding six string
A capo
A means to record my thoughts
Good boots
Micro brews
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The people in my life
Quantum phenomena
The state of humanity
Things I'd like to build
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out checking out local music...I make the rounds.
You should message me if
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you're a total basket case or a cat lady, just to make par! :)