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47 Durango, CO Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 36–53
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:31pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Other, and laughing about it
Dropped out of space camp
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
English (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I could give you a bucket-load of reasons why, but basically I am not normal. Oh, I know what normal is, but I’m not it. So, where does that leave me? The best general description I know of, something that really sounds like me, is that I am a classic ENFJ, a rare personality type as defined by the Jung Myer-Briggs personality test. (Yes. I really talk like this.) Since I took the test the first time, I became so fascinated by it that I’ve been researching it ever since. It’s really useful to me, maybe in a Buddhist sort of way because it gives me a rough idea as to how to treat other people in a way that works for them. ENFJs are all about win-win situations. I’ve gotten pretty good at recognizing certain tendencies of personality.

I guess the first thing anyone should know about me is that I live by a code. In fact, my code of honor is half of who I am. How you do something is far more important that what you are doing. I seldom give my word because I really hate it when sh_t happens, and I have to break it. I won’t lie to save myself, but I might lie for others if I feel the need to protect them. And I am absolutely incapable of stealing, cheating, or openly judging anyone for anything. (That doesn't count crisis situations. I'm at my best when life is on the line.) My life, especially my professional life would be so much easier if I were a slimy, scum bag, but I just can’t go there. I don’t give false compliments, and when I do compliment someone it’s usually something more observant than just their appearance. Lets see...I have a really, really, really long fuse. It takes a lot to set me off. Also, I think cussing has its place in the world. It seems to me that the closer I am to someone, the more we cuss. Think about it!

The rest of who I am (or at least who I think I am) is more complicated. I’m not a simple man, and unless you’re super intuitive, you’ll never figure me out, but that doesn’t mean that complicated is a bad thing. I am considered extremely funny by my friends and the people I work with. Really! I am! I have wicked knack for personification and sometimes a very dark sense of humor. There are times when I’m just not in the best of moods, venting, pounding out the God’s truth about something, and people are just laughing at me. Insensitive bast_rds...I guess that’s probably a good thing. I’m hardly thick skinned, but on the other hand there are those who would say that I am way too tough for my own good. Probably kind of true...

Finally, I am highly expressive. I’m expressive with my words and my face and my voice and my actions. I am an accomplished writer and songwriter. I am a romantic which works out pretty well, because there’s nothing like longing and heartbreak to inspire a good song. I listen to music all the time (mostly classic rock, acid rock, folk and bluegrass) and when there’s nothing to listen to, I can hear it in my head. I like to dance (although I think I could use some help in that department or at least get to a Red Elvises’ show where I can dance like in the old surfer movies). I love movies, but I can be a harsh critic when it comes to film and literature. And basically, I am an all around good dude, so if I write to you, you should just write back because I’m too damn old to entertain obsession . If anything, I’d love to hear your horror stories about online dating! I swear, someday I’m gonna write a book about this.

If you’ve read this far, I can recommend other authors. :)

Good luck out there!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have finally learned to practice what I preach and fully embrace entropy and the path of least resistance. Entropy is not chaos. There is a natural order to things just as they are. I am so much happier for loosing all expectations of the day ahead!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making you smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Must we define ourselves through media? Really? I'm a musician so music would take all day.

Lets just say I'm open minded! I like Bluegrass, Folk, Rock & Roll, singer songwriters, old school Motown, Metal and I love oldies. I'm not big on rap, modern country, or anything with an auto-tuner on the vocal!

Movies by genre:
Comedy - Blazing Saddles, Holy Grail, & Better Off Dead
Horror - Phantasm, The Changeling, & Halloween
Drama - The Razor's Edge, Breaking Away, & The Right Stuff
Sci Fi - Blade Runner, Moon, & The Fifth Element

Books that changed my life:
Dune, The Dancing Wu Li Masters (physics), & The Elements of Style
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My super close friends
A superior sounding six string
A capo
A means to record my thoughts
Good boots
Micro brews
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The people in my life
Quantum phenomena
The state of humanity
Things I'd like to build
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with coworkers and friends or home with my brood