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31 • Chicago, IL • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 24–36
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Today – 8:02pm
- 5′ 9″ (1.75m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Agnosticism, and laughing about it
- Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from masters program
- Art / Music / Writing
- Open relationship
- Mostly non-monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
- English, Spanish (Poorly)
You'll never hear me say no to a good cocktail or a good concert.
Food trucks for life.
I could totally write you a theme song, like right now.
Life is about having adventures, howling at the moon, and making things better than they were before you got there.
I wrote a Spanish-language version of Where The Wild Things Are (somewhat illegally) to be performed by high schoolers in Nicaragua, because when I was a kid, live theatre was the thing that made my heart beat—and it still does.
I love a handmade gimlet almost as much as I love a full moon over Lake Michigan. Let's enjoy both at the same time.
I'm a sex-positive, GGG person in a long-distance open relationship, and I hope that's something that you're excited to talk about. Previously, I was a full-on serial monogamist. If you've gained perspective from trying different relationship models, I would like to buy you a drink and hear your story.
I have an ongoing day job in the Loop where I design stuff and work with digital photography, and spend a fair amount of time staring out the window imagining where I could be biking instead.
taking candid photographs when you don't expect it.
finding the perfect place for dinner.
drinking killer espresso.
growing a beard when needed.
I've been told I'm a snappy dresser, and I'm usually pretty good at soliciting giggles.
Children of Men — one of the finest adaptations I've ever seen, and the best extended-single-shot-during-war-in-pursuit-of-an-infant perhaps of all time. Also: stoner Michael Kane.
I don't own a TV, so I'll be watching the final episodes of Mad Men at Blue Line.
A good taquería is both my kryptonite and my holy water. Bring on the Al Pastor.
This year I've been crazy for Generationals and St Vincent, but The Mountain Goats continue to rule my heart.
Notebook — digital or paper, as long as I can scribble
Guitar — so I can make up songs about you
Bicycle — for absconding
Rainstorms — for getting stranded in the best ways
Long Sunday Mornings — BRUNCH
But also, oddly enough, productivity apps.
brunch makes you swoon.
you know your whiskey.
you want to know more about the month-long holiday I created that revolves around brunch and hibernation.
you'd be down for some songwriting and jamming out. Especially if you play the ukulele or the cello. I mean, come on.
you like the idea of dressing up, going to a cocktail bar, and then spouting off absurd, nonsensical descriptions of how our drinks taste.
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