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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
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5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Open relationship
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
English, Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
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I wrote a play based on Where The Wild Things Are for high schoolers in Nicaragua. It was somewhat illegal, but I got to climb a volcano.

Every winter my friend and I host a multi-course dinner, where I pair cocktails with every one of his dishes. Ginger-basil gimlet, anyone?

Every spring I host a brunch party where everyone wears pajamas and drinks punch. It's part of a month-long celebration inspired by bears.

I want to go see shows at Schuba's, eat tacos at l'Patron, and sip coffee at Ipsento.

I'm equally excited to imbibe gin at the Scofflaw as I am to cozy up with beers at The Map Room.

Dan Savage is my guide.
What I’m doing with my life
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Running a Chicago playwright collective and organizing dance parties in pubs. I write, act, direct, produce, and market for our events and I love it more than anything.

I have an ongoing day job in the Loop where I design stuff and work with digital photography. I also interview people about their love lives on the side.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
making funny faces.

taking candid photographs of you when you don't expect it.

growing a beard when needed.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The ominous underscoring?

I've been told I'm a snappy dresser, but people always say that when you're wearing a cape.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Caryl Churchill is my hero.

Children of Men — the best extended-single-shot-during-war-in-pursuit-of-an-infant perhaps of all time. Also: stoner Michael Kane.

I don't own a TV, and I like it that way. So I'll be watching the final episodes of Mad Men at Blue Line.

A good taquería is both my kryptonite and my holy water. Bring on the Al Pastor.

Best concerts I've been to in the past year: The Mountain Goats at The Vic, Generationals at Thalia Hall, and Kishi Bashi at The Atheneaum.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Gin — the most delicious form of courage
Notebook — digital or paper, as long as I can scribble
Guitar — so I can make up songs about you
Bicycle — for absconding
Rainstorms — for getting stranded
Long Sunday mornings — BRUNCH
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The people, both real and fictional, I'm currently writing about.

Also, oddly enough, productivity apps.

On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Putting up a play in a furniture store.

Reading a novel at Bucktown Pub.

Flirting with you over Moscow Mules at The Drinkingbird.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'd totally bang Meryl Streep if she asked me.
You should message me if
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you know your whiskey.

you have strong opinions about pizza, and want to have a debate while we consume it.

you want to play music with me.

you'll dance with me at The Empty Bottle.

you're into monogamish and open relationship models.