27 Toronto, Ontario, CA
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My self-summary
I am a minimalist, libertine, treehugger, biologist, cinephile, musicophile. I like to study, discuss and play with biology, psychology, sexuality, art, politics, and philosophy. I like meeting people who can teach me new things and give me new perspectives.

I am a straight ally, and I am sex positive.
What I’m doing with my life
Just finished grad school. I'm looking into public service, consulting, or research. I'd like to learn a new language, maybe German, Mandarin or Japanese.
I’m really good at
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Authors / Philosophers: Marquis de Sade, Georges Bataille, Camus, Nietzsche, Sartre, Beauvoir, Foucault, Zizek, Madhyamaka and Zen Buddhism.

Cinema: Foreign films, especially east Asian and French. I am open-minded when it comes to movies. You can see what I'm watching and what I want to see here: MUBI
English: Waking Life, The Silence of the Lambs, Girl with a Pearl Earring, SLC Punk!, My First Mister, The Rage in Placid Lake, Lost in Translation, The Big Lebowski, Fantastic Mr. Fox, Ninth Gate, Quills, The Hunger
Japanese: Ichi the Killer, Seven Samurai, Kamikaze Girls, Beat Takeshi's films (Sonatine, Hana-bi, Outrage)
Swedish: Let the Right One In, Turn Me On Goddammit, The Seventh Seal
French: 8 Femmes, L'Apollonide: Souvenirs de la maison close, Catherine Breillat's films (Barbe bleue, Romance X, Une vieille maîtresse)
Korean: Sex is Zero, Tale of Two Sisters, Memories of Murder, Old Boy, The Man from Nowhere, Nameless Gangster
Cantonese: Infernal Affairs, Hard-Boiled, Shinjuku Incident, Police Story
Spanish: La Teta y la luna, El Topo, Y Tu Mamá También
German: Run Lola Run, Vier Minuten, Schultze Gets the Blues

TV: Fantasy, sci-fi, anime. Cowboy Bebop, Revolutionary Girl Utena, Akagi, Kaiji, Polar Bear's Café, K-On! (is a man watching an anime written for girls a big deal?).
Anthony Bourdain: No Reservations, Venture Bros., Adventure Time, Angel, Buffy, X-Files, Futurama, Weeds, Metalocalypse, Star Trek (DS9, TNG), IT Crowd, The Following, Hannibal.
Currently watch Melancholy of Haruhi Suzumiya, Spartacus: War of the Damned, and rewatching Gundam Wing.

Artists: I prefer art that pushes limits and is often controversial. e.g. Robert Mapplethorpe, Gustave Courbet, Manet, Cézanne, Rembrandt, GianLorenzo Bernini, William-Adolphe Bouguereau, Katsushika Hokusai.

Music: Music on profiles can too easily get list heavy. I don't listen to country music, but I don't mind if you do. You can ask me what my favs are. On my rotation lately:
Morgan Zarate
Joe Hisaishi
Chrome Sparks
Crystal Castles
The Child Of Lov

My profile name comes from the Norwegian love poem set to music by Ulver - Hymne VI: Wolf and Passion

Food: I take my coffee with cinnamon and cream. I love Quangzhou milk oolong tea.

I recently started brewing alcohol! Currently aging my first mead, I have no idea if it will taste good or not. I love tasting new things.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Metacognition. What is being? "Why do you complain of your fate when you could so easily change it?" I suffer from the disease of introspection.

Everything Sex Nerd Sandra talks about on her podcast.

I enjoy watching and talking about sexuality and queer oriented cinema (e.g. Pier Paolo Pasolini's and Catherine Breillat's films), and sexploitation films (e.g. Female Convict 701: Scorpion).

If you want to read some of my vain musings, my twitter is @MegaUltraTom
On a typical Friday night I am
Eating sushi with friends, watching a film with subtitles, having sex, usually in that order. Maybe I should try all three at the same time.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I like looking at naked people.
You should message me if
You're confident enough to
You're unconventional (obviously if you're initiating contact)
You're curious
No topic is taboo for you
You don't need justification for everything you do in life
You believe everyone has the right to their own sexual identity and proclivity.