I am a straight ally, and I am sex positive.
Cinema: Foreign films, especially east Asian and French. I am open-minded when it comes to movies. You can see what I'm watching and what I want to see here: MUBI
English: Waking Life, The Silence of the Lambs, Girl with a Pearl Earring, SLC Punk!, My First Mister, The Rage in Placid Lake, Lost in Translation, The Big Lebowski, Fantastic Mr. Fox, Ninth Gate, Quills, The Hunger
Japanese: Ichi the Killer, Seven Samurai, Kamikaze Girls, Beat Takeshi's films (Sonatine, Hana-bi, Outrage)
Swedish: Let the Right One In, Turn Me On Goddammit, The Seventh Seal
French: 8 Femmes, L'Apollonide: Souvenirs de la maison close, Catherine Breillat's films (Barbe bleue, Romance X, Une vieille maîtresse)
Korean: Sex is Zero, Tale of Two Sisters, Memories of Murder, Old Boy, The Man from Nowhere, Nameless Gangster
Cantonese: Infernal Affairs, Hard-Boiled, Shinjuku Incident, Police Story
Spanish: La Teta y la luna, El Topo, Y Tu Mamá También
German: Run Lola Run, Vier Minuten, Schultze Gets the Blues
TV: Fantasy, sci-fi, anime. Cowboy Bebop, Revolutionary Girl Utena, Akagi, Kaiji, Polar Bear's Café, K-On! (is a man watching an anime written for girls a big deal?).
Anthony Bourdain: No Reservations, Venture Bros., Adventure Time, Angel, Buffy, X-Files, Futurama, Weeds, Metalocalypse, Star Trek (DS9, TNG), IT Crowd, The Following, Hannibal.
Currently watch Melancholy of Haruhi Suzumiya, Spartacus: War of the Damned, and rewatching Gundam Wing.
Artists: I prefer art that pushes limits and is often controversial. e.g. Robert Mapplethorpe, Gustave Courbet, Manet, Cézanne, Rembrandt, GianLorenzo Bernini, William-Adolphe Bouguereau, Katsushika Hokusai.
Music: Music on profiles can too easily get list heavy. I don't listen to country music, but I don't mind if you do. You can ask me what my favs are. On my rotation lately:
The Child Of Lov
My profile name comes from the Norwegian love poem set to music by Ulver - Hymne VI: Wolf and Passion
Food: I take my coffee with cinnamon and cream. I love Quangzhou milk oolong tea.
I recently started brewing alcohol! Currently aging my first mead, I have no idea if it will taste good or not. I love tasting new things.
Everything Sex Nerd Sandra talks about on her podcast.
I enjoy watching and talking about sexuality and queer oriented cinema (e.g. Pier Paolo Pasolini's and Catherine Breillat's films), and sexploitation films (e.g. Female Convict 701: Scorpion).
If you want to read some of my vain musings, my twitter is @MegaUltraTom
You're unconventional (obviously if you're initiating contact)
No topic is taboo for you
You don't need justification for everything you do in life
You believe everyone has the right to their own sexual identity and proclivity.