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38 F Oakland, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 14
4′ 11″ (1.50m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a fun, outspoken educator who takes life seriously but likes to laugh a lot along the way! I'm committed to family, community and social justice.

My interests include hiking, dancing, art and hanging out and listening to music. I am looking for someone who can engage in thought-provoking conversation but also knows how to let loose.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a fourth grade teacher in East Oakland! :) "Pedagogical madness, my status is the baddest!" (props if you know what track I'm mocking)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Speaking Spanish
Trying not to interrupt people when they're talking and apologizing when I do.
Being there and coming through for my friends when they really need me.
Staying calm in a crisis.
Reflecting on myself and the world around me.
Being able to switch from serious to light-hearted.
Seeing the humor in daily life.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile
My curves
My friendly sassiness, or serious dedication
(depending on the context)
My real-ness (some love it, some seem threatened by it)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
(In order of importance to me:)
1. Food
2. Music (ties with books!)
2. Books (ties with music!)
3. Movies
4. TV

1. FOOD! I love FOOD! All different kinds of DELICIOUS, FRESH food of all ethnic and culinary traditions! (especially whole foods prepared with high quality ingredients) Italian, Mediterranean, Japanese/sushi, Genova subs, taco trucks, meat, vegetables, California style...Going out, eating in, cooking...

2. Music: An attempt at sampling the breadth and depth of my musical taste: The real GOOD Hip-hop stuff, the real GOOD hippie stuff, and everything real GOOD in between! :)

On my "Recently Played" list: Arcade Fire, The Roots, Common, Freestyle Fellowship, Manu Chao, Bob Marley, Al Green, Bob Dylan, Fania All-Stars, Fleet Foxes, The Wild Tchoupitoulas, RHCP, Valerie June, The Quiet is Kept

2. Books (a random sampling)
Rule of the Bone - Russell Banks
The U.S.A. Trilogy - John Dos Passos
The Lacuna - Barbara Kingsolver
Guns, Germs and Steel - Jared Diamond
Tale of the Unknown Island - José Saramago
Oh, The Places You Will Go - Dr. Seuss
The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao - Junot Diaz
etc, etc...

Fight Club
Slumdog Millionaire
Godfather (all)
V for Vendetta
Good Will Hunting
Monty Python and the Holy Grail
City of God
Twelve Monkeys
Shawshank Redemption
The Life Aquatic
A Scanner Darkly
Howl's Moving Castle
Pan's Labrynth

TV: Tremé, The Wire, Game of Thrones, Breaking Bad, Seinfeld, All in the Family
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My closest friends
My family
Access to natural surroundings
Shared laughter
My favorite jeans
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to improve my teaching craft on a daily basis.
what's happening in the world and in our country socio-politically.
how to live my own unique authentic life of balance.
what to do in this moment for fun!
my friends, family, and relationships.
how I am growing and changing.
men i like. ;)
things I've read, or heard people say, that strike me for some reason.
how much love I have in my life and finding a life partner to share it with.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
-crashing from the tiredness of the workweek on the couch watching a good movie and eating something delicious
-motivating myself to gain that second wind and go out to dinner and drinks with good friends
-going to a movie
-laughing and enjoying Happy Hour with my awesome, fun colleagues at a bar
-dancing at Zumba class
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
This summer, I went skinnydipping in Lake Michigan under the sky of a new moon.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you'd like to learn more about me.
you're interested in brains and beauty.
you found my profile appealing.
like me, you're looking for love and having fun along the way! :)