It's more palatable for the both of us to meet up with (single) girls. It's not even about anything sexual; that just seems to be the right mix for us so far. But she's kind of wanting to hang out with guys now, too. Just dinner, drinks, all three (or four, if you're a dude and have a special somebody) of us (no sexual tension, please). Spending time with girls is great, don't get me wrong! There's just something peculiarly relaxed and chummy hanging out with cool dudes, you know? If you're a single dude looking to hang, your best bet is to be at least heteroflexible. No promise and little chance of sex, but it's just good to know we do everything fairly in bed.
Him: He really enjoys food, beer, and napping, as well as camping, exploring, lazing, cooking, cuddling, getting dirty, playing in the rain, writing, reading, playing games, and handsomely brushing back his wind-swept hair... to name a few. He's pretty ridiculously relaxed and amiable, if you ask me.
Her: Man, how do you break down "seraphic"? Hm. Well, she loves to cook, giggle, two-finger touch butts, and is a complete happy mess around animals, especially her dogs and cats. She's also an amazing artist and doodler extraordinaire. She beasts at: yoga moves (SO smug about being able to do half-diamond / full camel-- google it!); getting befriended by little kids because they all seem to love her; obsessively talking about the gym because lately she just can't get there (big sad sigh); zoning out into a really good book; getting excessively emotional over TV shows and movies.
We should probably mention that he is 29 and she is 22. She'll probably blurt out that she's either 23 or 17 if you ask in person because she's spacey like that, but we promise, the driver's license says 22. We like the age discrepancy, but maybe not everybody wants to hang with a seven year stretch. Go figure!