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across from us. It's a general attitude I want nothing to do with.
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Ofterdingen Away
41 / M / Straight / Single
Berkeley, California
His Details
- Last Online
- Online now!
- Ethnicity
- White
- Height
- 6′ 1″ (1.85m).
- Body Type
- Athletic
- Diet
- Mostly vegan
- Smokes
- No
- Drinks
- Rarely
- Drugs
- Never
- Religion
- Atheism but not too serious about it
- Sign
- —
- Education
- Graduated from Ph.D program
- Job
- —
- Income
- —
- Offspring
- Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
- Pets
- —
- Speaks
- English, German (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
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What I’m doing with my life
In ascending order of importance,
I'm trying to be fit, eating well. Just finished my first 600k ride (28h!) and looking for the next challenge.
I'm finishing my first novel.
I want to have a sincere relationship with a woman who understands me. I'm drawn to the fantasy of having a family.
I'm trying to be fit, eating well. Just finished my first 600k ride (28h!) and looking for the next challenge.
I'm finishing my first novel.
I want to have a sincere relationship with a woman who understands me. I'm drawn to the fantasy of having a family.
I’m really good at
connect 4
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My bookshelf has a special spot for primary texts, the books I find
myself coming back to, thinking about. The top three have remained
constant for years now: Anna Karenina, Heinrich von Ofterdingen,
Middlemarch.
Recent favorites are A Tree grows in Brooklyn, Das Boot (maybe you saw the movie), and the first two books of Mantel's Cromwell trilogy.
Recent favorites are A Tree grows in Brooklyn, Das Boot (maybe you saw the movie), and the first two books of Mantel's Cromwell trilogy.
The six things I could never do without
Garden
Books
Intellectual play
Outside sweat
Bike
fruit
Books
Intellectual play
Outside sweat
Bike
fruit
I spend a lot of time thinking about
A friend recently told me that the best choice for you and the
world is pretty much always the cheapest.
On a typical Friday night I am
South Berkeley house party, very casual and unplanned, then getting
ready for the morning's very long ride.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
If I were to live at Downton I would be the Dowager Countess.
I’m looking for
- Girls who like guys
- Ages 30–45
- Near me
- For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You want to have a charming conversation that might lead to
friendship or something more.
