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Ogardn

25 M Jacksonville, FL

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 10:04pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Education
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
http://ogardn.tumblr.com/
^feel free to get to know me by what I post if you want, in addition if you want to secretly ask me something you may use the anon messaging and ask me there, I am unfailingly honest.

I want to make one thing very clear here, I am here for the long term. I am not looking for something casual, I am not looking to hook up, I want to find someone that I can come home to (this does not mean we have to live together right away...) and make me smile even though my day has been awful. I want someone who is not going to flip out every time I chat with another girl, one who is excited to live life as it comes, go out to events when they occur and probably relax at home much of the rest of the time. This is my ending hope, but I know this is not how it starts... I am patient, but you need to know where I want things to go, each and every time. I will not fake my efforts, they are genuine.

I also do not consider having met someone until I actually meet you in person. There is something about seeing how someone reacts to what you say, getting to hear tone, and general body language. So don't be shocked if I ask about meeting in person.

I am pretty simple, I actually care about people. That simple thing motivates each part of who I am. I work to live, not live to work. I am used to having fun on a minimal budget. I am creative and always looking for how to make life better.

There are many parts of myself that I feel no strong attachment to. These parts I am willing to mold to the people I am close to. For example; how I currently eat its 80 percent based on who I am with. I have known people who cannot have gluten, are vegan, vegetarian, others who out of concern feel uncomfortable eating around more restrictive diets. I will eat according to what makes the most people comfortable.

I am intense, I know that. I mean what I say, I take life serious, and I care about how I treat other people. I will not tell you I care if I don't, I will not try to do anything you don't want. I will always be clear, I will show you loyalty and I will stand by everything I do. If there is a problem I want to talk it out, to find a solution.

Love like you have no regrets.
You can't scare me, I am a teacher.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Being the 'Straight edged spinner'.

Fire spinning is my daily release, it is relaxing, invigorating and looks amazing! Without it I am sure I would go insane. Going to boffer camp outs. (think a cross between paintball and fencing)

Making a new family: I am not really close to my blood family. I am actively trying to find the people I can look forward to seeing each week. If we ever chat and I say that I am with the family know that these are the people I choose, not that I was given.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I can cook, I may need a recipe but I am good in the kitchen.
Spinning my fire, you should see the show.
Being there, not limited to who I date, I help everyone I can.
Listening, and saying exactly what I mean.
Caring.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
When I catch someone's attention they are usually wondering if I will hit them with whatever I am spinning.

My eyes would be what they notice otherwise, they are usually somewhere between blue and green, more blue the happier I am.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Anything that provokes thought or creates a good feeling.

Lord of the Rings, Dragonlance saga, Most sci-fi / fantasy as I have a weakness for magic and dragons and I like the worlds they create. I need to actually read Game of Thrones but... time.

Merlin (BBC), Seeker, Lost, Full Metal Alchemist, Stargate (SG-1 is preferred), Star Trek, Star Wars, How I met your mother, Everybody loves Raymond, Battlestar, Buffy/Angel, Numb3rs, Warehouse 13, NCIS...
TV that makes me think, laugh, and sometimes cry.
[basically runs the line of scifi-drama-action]
I have been waiting to watch Dr. Who with somebody.

Will listen anything I can move with, not much a fan of rap or classical. I wind up spinning with a lot of pop music rather than that electric dubstep stuff. I like to be able to sing while I spin, not that I sing well..
Current favorite artists include Demi Lovato, Peter Hollens, Lindsey Stirling, Owl City and Nickelback (throw backs yea)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends/Family - Often the same thing for me.
Poi - It is my meditation, relaxation, and workout.
Boffer - Sometime you want to hit something, make it safe.
Truth - I am the biggest fan of honesty, but I am a philosopher.
Good Food - I can eat it all, but I tend to eat vegan a lot.
Love - To have and to hold is the greatest of gifts.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Each day is a fresh start, how do I make the most of this one?

Is everyone always this selfish?
Why don't people understand each other?
What are you thinking that you would ask me that?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Spinning fire, boffer practice at UNF, chilling at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am ready to do some experimenting...

I have yet to have a real relationship. You can ask for details if you want.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you really want me to message you here is a secret, message me. 90% chance of getting a response.

You want a response.
You want/need someone to talk to.
You don't just stop responding.
You are honest.

If you chat with me and become, for any reason uninterested in me please do me the courtesy of telling me, I will do the same.