I can't give solutions to all of life's problems, doubts, or fears. But I can listen to you, and together we will search for answers.

I can't change your past with all it's heartache and pain, nor the future with its untold stories. But I can be there now when you need me to care.

I can't keep your feet from stumbling. I can only offer my hand that you may grasp it and not fall.

Your joys, triumphs, successes, and happiness are not mine; Yet I can share in your laughter.

Your decisions in life are not mine to make, nor to judge; I can only support you, encourage you, and help you when you ask.

I can't prevent you from falling away from friendship, from your values, from me. I can only pray for you, talk to you and wait for you.

I can't give you boundaries which I have determined for you, But I can give you the room to change, room to grow, room to be yourself.

I can't keep your heart from breaking and hurting, But I can cry with you and help you pick up the pieces and put them back in place.

I can't tell you who you are, I can only love you.

Earned my honors BS in psychology (as opposed to the normal BS) and am currently taking some time off, debating between grad schools or just working and helping my family.

Started writing a novel while I'm working on the former stuff, As I flesh it out I'll decide if its worth attempting to publish or simply finish for my own sake.

More than I normally admit, but once in awhile it's nice to tie modesty in a duffle bag and drive it off a cliff, today being one of those days. I'm a jack of all trades savant in many respects, I pick things up quickly and relearn them quicker. For the detail oriented I'll add a bit.

Pushing myself past my limits- It's not my fault; nobody defined "limit" for me until I'd already broken half a dozen. Ever since I've not held the same respect for the word.

Mathematics- Calculus at age 15 should be enough there.

Being amusing- Both in terms of being witty and being the object of amusement.

Strategy- Particularly in competitive games, not entirely sure why I just tend to win alot at whatever it is though.

Procrastinating- (runs off to finish the rest of his profile later)

My pants. Seriously, its downright amusing how much people love whatever pants I happen to be wearing.

My Eyes. Women in particular seem to love them and I love anything about me that gets a smile out of a beautiful woman, only reason the eyes get to stay.

My mood. I'm always in a good mood these days, live through your personal definition of hell and it just comes naturally.

I care. I don't know why half the time but I take genuine interest in other people and do pretty much whatever I can to make the lives of those around me better. damnedable reflexes.

The dreaded list you can never add everything to approaches!

a) Hitchhiker's Guide, Tolkien, and Earthsea start it off, throw on a couple hundred more pounds of sci-fi, and top it off with a large dose of books about humanity and self-improvement literature (Stuff's like crack I swear). b)Boondock Saints, Fifth Element, Monty Python's works, Star Wars, more Animes than I care to recall, Sin city, Princess Bride,

in no particular order.

1)A Breast 2)It's twin sister 3)Nipples 4)Areoles 5)The term "pantaloons" 6)Milk

Seriously though there's nothing I can think of in my life that I have not given up in pursuit of a goal. Breaking addictions to objections/activities was a past-time of mine when I was younger. Yeah I was a special, special lad, I know.

Women (at the moment how offended y'all'll be at the last section)

Love- old ones, lost ones, ones never to be, and ones yet to be. Be as corny as you like in your interpretation of this one, hopeless romantic definitely applies.

The random interest of the month- I tend to fixate on things in cycles.

The majority of my life I figured out some time ago and am rather pleased with, which tells you more about how much of an introvert I used to be as opposed to my genius.

Spending time with some friends or scribing a new "random hot chick" story as my friends dubbed them. I like the title, if only because it's so easily interpreted to mean whatever you want to think, and it's almost uniformly wrong ^_^.

I lost my pants!

You have the courage to make the first move.

Seriously though it is very refreshing to meet self-confident women who are perfectly comfortable taking charge when they want something instead of just waiting around for it. I don't care if its the first time you've ever done something like it, that's the beauty of meeting new people, you are everything you do from the day you meet them onwards to them, your past is simply history.