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36 M Seattle, WA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 24
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), LISP

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My self-summary
Total boyscout gone wrong.

I appreciate people who have that inner reserve of calm and cocked-smile satisfaction that makes you wonder whether it's meditation, maturation, or masturbation that's behind it all.

A life of service to our fellow humans sprinkled with both health and debauchery sounds good to me. I believe that charisma and luck come from the same place, and drink deeply from that well. Deserts, a good horn section, and thinky art ring my bell. I'm that dude who moves your couch and then takes you out dancing.

When it comes to ladies I value charm, distinct personal style, smarts, and strong character. Lady-Bowies and killer bangs both particularly slay me, but beauty comes in so many different forms. Hyper-femme and androgyny both draw my eye. Really, when someone's beauty hits about a 7 out of 10 it branches off into different forms of lovely that can't really be compared. Stunning beauty and brilliance do not intimidate me, since my friend-circle and love life have been full of them both.

Some light and uncomplicated dates would be perfect right now. Let's go surfing, see something at OtB or go to a gallery, or share a bottle of something delicious in the sunshine.
What I’m doing with my life
For fun, right now:
-Getting out of town a lot to enjoy art and/or party.
-Scrimshaw (inscribing ivory/bone) and unskilled but enthusiastic sculpture.

Life's work:
Healthcare in this country is genuinely fucked, so I'm trying to improve it one hospital at a time through software that tracks/improves care while providing cost transparency. [Sorry for the long sentence, that bored me too]. The work is nerdy and nonprofit, but makes me feel like we're rolling the rock up the hill for a reason.
I’m really good at
Entertaining, footrubs, navigating in the woods or new cities sans map, brute labor.
The first things people usually notice about me
A brief survey returned: Looks like he's English, broad shoulders, tall, remarkably well-preserved.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Food: Real hollandaise, Korean in those awesome sizzling stone pots on cold crappy days, and super-green stuff like broccoli and kale

Movies: Under the Skin, The Hunger, The Producers, City of God, Cabin in the Woods, Seka and Friends

Books: Patti Smith's "Just Kids" recently broke my heart/inspired me. Dreamtigers, Dune, Cloud Atlas, Norse myths, the Secret History, White Oleander

Music: Prince Rama, Ancient Warlocks, Tame Impala, OM, Grails, various housey/techno sounds like John Talabot or Max Cooper, Lustmord, Nico, Bowie (of course), Gillian Welch, various folky sounds like Joan Baez, sludgey/doomy metal like Sleep, Asva, etc., Jerry Lee Lewis, Screamin' Jay Hawkins, Townes Van Zandt, Earl Bostic
The six things I could never do without
Long stretches of time to stare into space
Sunshine (ironically)
Love and lust
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How these times that seem so dangerous for mankind and the planet could actually be the cradle of our rebirth. I heart the singularity.

Also, sex and vikings (although usually not together).
On a typical Friday night I am
Dancing (RIP ETG), carving, or preparing to escape with a pack.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit just about anything if you ask it with a smile.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating
You should message me if would like to mingle with a fellow who's all smiles and who can switch from intellectual to animal fluidly and comfortably.


...we share interests and you would just like to chat. Always happy to hear what's going through the heads of smart people!