Having said that, I don't think that should be the only thing that defines me for the next 10 years. I'd like to be able to talk to someone else other than my second-grader! He's funny and witty and all, but still...! Not to mention, I'm free most every weekend :)
I have no problem getting to know people - I'm pretty forward and very direct actually. It just takes some time, and I don't have all the time in the world that I'd like to commit to getting to know new people (which is one of my favorite things to do....that and people watching. Interesting fact: I'm a pretty good lip reader. Combine that with people watching, and you have hours of entertainment!)
So here's a good summary: I'm funny, goofy, sassy, logical, sarcastic, respectful, handy (I call myself "Bobette Vila"), classy, intelligent, self-sufficient, sometimes spontaneous, respected and liked (but disliked too...I'm not afraid to admit it.) I LOVE being outdoors and active when it's warm outside. (Winter is honestly something I can't stand and try to avoid!) I'm also an old soul.
These are my "would-love's" for you: Outgoing, funny, sarcastic, gainfully employed....Just have a job and be able to take care of yourself, compassionate, considerate & generous (but not overly...I don't like doormats), forward, willing to defend yourself, willing to accept the fact that I can't always give all my time to you because I first have a duty as a mother. Finally, you've gotta have thick skin.
Please understand that if I visited you, I saw something that I liked, but I may not always reach out to you if I didn't get a lot from your profile. A lot of times guys don't even fill out their profiles, which completely baffles me! What the hell are we here for? Talk to me.
I'm also currently reading about how I can be a human lie detector. Be careful ;)
Movies: Gone in 60 Seconds, A-Team, Harry Potter (You can judge. Go ahead!) The Transporter, Transporter II (most all Jason Statham goodness), Transformers, Step Brothers, Bridesmaids. Sappy movies really aren't my thing. If you want me to commit to sitting that long, it needs to be action packed or really hilarious.
Music. Rock, Pop, R&B, Classical. Not really into Grunge.
Food? Well, I absolutely love to cook. And I try not to cook the same thing twice. I'm very open to trying anything once, but not *quite* to the extent of Andrew Zimmern - he's an animal!
Honestly speaking for utilitarian purposes - Money. I actually really can't stand money.
Yes, that's a lot...but I owe it to myself to be picky.