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  • Ages 18-27
  • Near me
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Last online
Nov 24
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Two-year college
My self-summary
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First off...hey! My name is Ben and I am a college graduate who is working as much as I can so I can move out of Rochester when I can. I have my degree in Musical Theater and it has become one of the few things that keeps my going. I never thought it would be my passion when I was growing up, but once I started in college (kind of on accident), now I can't imagine myself doing anything else.
What I’m doing with my life
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Right now, I am working as a server at Applebee's and making late night Denny's trips with my best friend. If I'm lucky enough, I'm rehearsing a show with one of the community theater groups around town.
I’m really good at
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I guess making people laugh? I guess I am just good at making people feel better about being in a bad situation. Anyone can come to me and I tend to play devils advocate and help them see both sides of whatever situation they are in.

Oh and people are usually pretty surprised at how well I can riff for some reason.

And capturing pictures from Snapchat.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My laugh. It is pretty distinctive.
My sense of humor. I'm pretty funny if I do say so myself.
My singing. I tend to sing more than I speak.
My smile.
The fact I actually took the time to put my contacts in that day.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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~Harry Potter
~Maximum Ride
~Lord of the Rings
~Boy Meets Boy

Mostly everything except foreign and horror films.
~Forrest Gump
~Sister Act 2
~27 Dresses
~Singin' In The Rain
~The Guilt Trip
...just to name a few

I'm studying musical theater so I have a very wide range in music. As far as genres goes, country is my absolute favorite. I find a lot of it so much more passionate than, say pop music, and I love how it really paints a picture of what they are singing about. But for favorite bands/artists...
~Whitney Houston
~Christina Aguilera
~Darius Rucker
~Panic! At The Disco
~Carrie Underwood
~Josh Turner
~Kelly Clarkson
~Natasha Bedingfield
~Jennifer Hudson
~All Time Low
~Lady Antebellum
~Donny Hathaway
...but there is sooooo much more

~Parks and Rec
~American Horror Story
~Brothers & Sisters
~American Dad
~Family Guy
~Will and Grace
~30 Rock
~Orange Is The New Black
~Bob's Burgers

I eat a lot, but I love Italian, Chinese, and cheap little hometown diners.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
~Cell Phone
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Do I work today? What auditions are coming up? How long til I can move to Cali or NY?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually at work since everyone goes out to eat on Friday nights but I'm usually done early enough to go out after and grab a drink or 2.
You should message me if
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you want to talk or if anything I said striked your fancy.