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  • Ages 23–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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Last online
Yesterday – 7:45pm
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Agnosticism, and very serious about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), German (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
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AIDS free since 1998!

I have a friend who uses OKcupid who has signed in as a woman to search straight guys to see what kind of competition he's up against.
I assume that there's a mix of self-deprecation and shameless self-aggrandizing.

I'm into pop culture, but also cultural literacy.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have a couple Masters degrees in music, trying to get my DMA, which is like a phD. (I already have a P.H.D., if you're into crude, juvenile humor like that, I've got plenty) I'm a painter. Not like painting a house, I just didn't want to say I'm an Artist, because that sounds pretentious. Basically, I'm pursuing higher education, while doing what I want, so I'm pumped about it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Creative stuff in general. Being a jack of all trades, master of none. Learning new things. I'm good with my hands, but I am amazing with my ribs.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My voice is very low. I've got a great face for radio. Actually, I think when that's said about someone it means they're ugly. So I have a great radio voice, but I hope I am easy to listen to with your eyes as well.

People seem to drop their jaw when they see me with a shirt off--I have a ton of tattoos, but I guess I could be described as a preppy dresser, too, so this really throws everyone off. I don't really think about it though.

In high school I had a very rad chemistry teacher who reminded everyone that it was equally lame to only wear clothes from a certain store, as it was to refuse to wear something based on its label. I see no distinction between "clothes" and "costumes". This is my work costume. This is my lounging around the house costume. This is my rock n' roll show costume. This is my first date costume. This is my exercise costume. This is my business casual attire for drinks with clients costume.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Unbearable Lightness of Being, by Milan Kundera.
Diary and Invisible Monsters by Chuck Pahlaniuk
Clown Girl, by Monica Drake is probably my favorite book. It's about a woman who takes her clowning very, very seriously.
and, I've read all of John Irving's books. You've probably read A Prayer for Owen Meany, or The World According to Garp in high school.
The only thing I've ever been served that I couldn't swallow was sea urchin, but if Jiro served it to me, I would try again. When dining, I'm far more concerned with good company than with fancy food and good plating. I'd rather go dumpster diving, or worse, get taco bell with my "besties" than have some molecular gastronomy at WD-50 with a bunch of food snobs.
recently I really enjoyed "Her". "Crank 2" is my favorite action movie--my favorite musician did the soundtrack, but I really love documentaries. "Better, Stronger, Faster", "Jiro Loves Sushi", and "Exit Through The Gift Shop" are some recent favorites, but right now I'm watching "The Act of Killing" and I'm obsessed with the mind-bending nature of a film that is about so many things all at once.
You name it, I've seen it. There are/were better shows, but I have a soft spot in my heart for "Deadwood", and I wish "Flash Forward" and "The Event" never got cancelled. If "Jericho" was made for HBO and wasn't on CBS, only to be cancelled after 1.5 seasons, it would be my favorite show of all time.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
questions asking for lists of an arbitrary length.

Ladies--What is up with pictures of dogs? I'm an animal lover, don't get me wrong. But I don't understand why you post pictures of them here-alone in the shot-on a dating site.

Seriously though, I guess if I can't live without 6 things, I'll find out the hard way very quickly what those 6 things are. I'm not attached to possessions.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
whether the universe is finite or infinite. when they can answer that question, that'll be like when Kepler proved the Earth was not the center of the universe. I wonder if anyone noticed I misspelled "calendar" in the "On a typical Friday night I am..." category.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
probably not even aware it's a Friday...but I think this question is asking "what do you do for fun on a free night?", in which case I'm hanging with friends, or at a movie. I don't like this question. I work on my own time and can't be bothered by calenders. Time is for the week minded, like religion and breathing...which come to think of it, is why I'm so weak minded...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a very serious scrabble player.
"I wanna dance with somebody" by Whitney Huston is one of my guilty pleasures.
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