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34 • Brooklyn, NY • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 23–43
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Today – 5:25pm
- 6′ 3″ (1.91m)
- Body type
- Strictly anything
- Agnosticism, and very serious about it
- Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from masters program
- Art / Music / Writing
- Doesn’t have kids
- English (Fluently), French (Poorly), German (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)
I have a friend who uses OKcupid who has signed in as a woman to search straight guys to see what kind of competition he's up against.
I assume that there's a mix of self-deprecation and shameless self-aggrandizing.
I'm into pop culture, but also cultural literacy.
People seem to drop their jaw when they see me with a shirt off--I have a ton of tattoos, but I guess I could be described as a preppy dresser, too, so this really throws everyone off. I don't really think about it though.
In high school I had a very rad chemistry teacher who reminded everyone that it was equally lame to only wear clothes from a certain store, as it was to refuse to wear something based on its label. I see no distinction between "clothes" and "costumes". This is my work costume. This is my lounging around the house costume. This is my rock n' roll show costume. This is my first date costume. This is my exercise costume. This is my business casual attire for drinks with clients costume.
The Unbearable Lightness of Being, by Milan Kundera.
Diary and Invisible Monsters by Chuck Pahlaniuk
Clown Girl, by Monica Drake is probably my favorite book. It's about a woman who takes her clowning very, very seriously.
and, I've read all of John Irving's books. You've probably read A Prayer for Owen Meany, or The World According to Garp in high school.
The only thing I've ever been served that I couldn't swallow was sea urchin, but if Jiro served it to me, I would try again. When dining, I'm far more concerned with good company than with fancy food and good plating. I'd rather go dumpster diving, or worse, get taco bell with my "besties" than have some molecular gastronomy at WD-50 with a bunch of food snobs.
recently I really enjoyed "Her". "Crank 2" is my favorite action movie--my favorite musician did the soundtrack, but I really love documentaries. "Better, Stronger, Faster", "Jiro Loves Sushi", and "Exit Through The Gift Shop" are some recent favorites, but right now I'm watching "The Act of Killing" and I'm obsessed with the mind-bending nature of a film that is about so many things all at once.
You name it, I've seen it. There are/were better shows, but I have a soft spot in my heart for "Deadwood", and I wish "Flash Forward" and "The Event" never got cancelled. If "Jericho" was made for HBO and wasn't on CBS, only to be cancelled after 1.5 seasons, it would be my favorite show of all time.
Ladies--What is up with pictures of dogs? I'm an animal lover, don't get me wrong. But I don't understand why you post pictures of them here-alone in the shot-on a dating site.
Seriously though, I guess if I can't live without 6 things, I'll find out the hard way very quickly what those 6 things are. I'm not attached to possessions.
"I wanna dance with somebody" by Whitney Huston is one of my guilty pleasures.
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