Ohsir
46 Edison, NJ
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My self-summary
Ethically non-monogamous. I am very unusual, it's not just that I think outside the box, but I'm so far outside the box that I can hardly even see it anymore. I love doing clever things and finding ways to make things more efficient and run more smoothly, even if unfortunately it requires entirely too much time and effort to make that happen. I like physical activity and absolutely require mental stimulation. I quite often combine the two as well, which explains my interest in martial arts as well as my knot-tying hobby, both of which require a good deal of thought.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm in a situation of flux in my life but it is going well. I took a dating hiatus recently but I'm ready to meet someone now. I've been in an open relationship for all of my marriage apart from that recent hiatus. Things are pretty good though, so let me know if you're interested. Life always changes.... To be continued.
I’m really good at
Being married. That and cooking for my wife. I have a wife whom I find quite lovely, and she likes my cooking.
The six things I could never do without
Breaking arbitrary rules on the number of things I could never do without.

There are only 10 kinds of people in the world: those who understand binary and those who don't.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
This changes too rapidly to list! I require a great deal of mental stimulus pretty much all the time. I love to focus on learning things in detail but I won't mentally stand still. Message if you can keep up!
On a typical Friday night I am
Planning on doing activities on Saturday morning.
You should message me if
you wish to learn something. I've dedicated most of my life to learning things and teaching is something I love.

Please be aware that I'm in an open marriage. I am very happy with my wife and love her very much, and if you wish to discuss this or ask questions, feel free to ask.

I've removed casual sex from my profile because I've never had much luck with that. Feel free to ask me about this, too.
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