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54 San Jose, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 45–62
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
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6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Mostly anything
Not at all
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from space camp
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
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Just moved back here a few months ago. Now what?

I decided that .... I don't know what I'm doing. Let's meet and see how meeting goes. Than maybe more stuff after that. Then, we'll see what happens after that. I might be ready for a relationship.

Really hoping for to find someone local in or around San Jose.

Oscar Wilde said: “A dreamer is one who can only find his way by moonlight, and his punishment is that he sees the dawn before the rest of the world.”

And I am:
Originally from Northern California. You may find me witty, comfortable, easy-going, sometimes gregarious, sometimes shy, old-fashioned, and at times outrageous. When it comes down to it, Adventure is my middle name!
I like kissing, holding hands, trying new things, or doing what feels natural. I am spiritual, and am in touch with my humanity.
The photo of me as a cowboy is from 7/2013

I start off slow, then warm up, then you can't live without me.
What I’m doing with my life
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Spent years in So Cal perfecting the art of screenplay and comedy writing and moved up here and got back into directing, and editing and refreshing my skills that I had in film school. I have an education in psychology/philosophy, but am drawn to film and music. The recession took its toll, and I was out of work for a long time. Now I work in transportation, but do my artistic endeavors on the sly. ;)

Enjoying life, growing with it. Being myself. Looking for you.
Musician/Composer. Writing plays, and comedy things.
Playing, and learning about life and myself.

"Traveler, there is no road, the road is made by walking."

I do need to get a Lit Agent for a screenplay. Do you know of one?

Looking for a friend, playmate, lover, companion.

Do you remember Haiku? Here is my favorite:

Haiku is fun
But sometimes it doesn't make sense

I just bought a new drum set. You should probably be aware of this.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Kissing. Really, I am!

Improvising, playing music, making you laugh, guessing what's behind your back, giving foot massages, writing screenplays, being honest when it is time to be honest, time travel.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes. I have very blue eyes. Maybe my butt. I have a cute butt.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Magnificent Obsession is fav book. Alchemist is up there too. I am a Louis L'Amour fan. Joseph Campbell, Huston Smith, Nag Hammadi, and Bill Watterson. (Calvin and Hobbes) I read spiritual stuff, and still have my favorite Hardy Boy book.

Comedy movies, and mysteries. Well... actually, most kinds of movies, as long as they are good. Somewhere In Time, and Bourne Identity, Kelly's Heroes, Arthur, Amelie, High Plains Drifter, As Good As It Gets, Family Man...I just plain love a good movie.

Old classic TV shows, such as Perry Mason, Wild Wild West, Twilight Zone. New ones like Big Bang Theory, and Community.
Did you see the live 30 Rock? Hysterical.

Mysteries! Sherlock Holmes, and Agatha Christie.

I love seeing plays. Lots of my friends are actors and I go see them. I used to be in a meetup group that attended plays.

Music is great to go see live. Don't do that often enough. First concert I ever saw was The Who in 1975. Last concert I saw was Britt Floyd earlier this year in the Bay Area. Last live music was The Beach Boys at the Salem Fairgrounds.

Food? Chinese, BBQ, Steaks, oh this could be a long list...

I like comedy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Pen and paper
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Music, stories, comedy, what I should be doing today, and the future.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Getting out the Ouija board (not really)
Plotting to take over the world (not really)
I haven't had the same Friday night in a month.
I do not know what is typical.
Maybe I am waiting for you?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can be VERY handy around the house

I'm a musician. You know how we are ;)
You should message me if
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You think the Sun is bigger than the Earth.
You love getting foot massages.
You can sing "Soft Kitty" to me.

Or if you'd like to..