I am very smiley (mostly to mask nerves in social situations with new people), fairly stupid, and overly polite, sometimes to the point of formality. Polite and quiet seem to come off as snobbish, but I'm really just trying not to say something dumb.
If we click, you see a whole 'nother Jared. Less smiling, but more wise-cracking and snark, some ten-point vocab words, a lot of randomness. It will probably come up that I'm FTM (trans), that I call myself a writer, that I have no idea what I'm doing. I'll have a few good stories that might surprise you. And I might start singing a musical number. Just a heads-up.