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34 San Francisco, CA Man

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  • Ages 22–40
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 27
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black, Native American, Hispanic / Latin, White, Other
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Fit
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Scorpio
Education
University
Job
Medicine
Status
Single
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Portuguese (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am half american and half brasilian. I have dual citizenship.
I am a kind, compassionate and passionate individual. I value honesty, integrity, and humility equally. I am quite open minded. I possess a very wide lens of perspective. My third eye is wide open. Suffice it to say that I broke out of the box a very long time ago. You could never put me back in my box, or anyone else's for that matter. These days I am aware of both the bigger picture, and the pieces of the puzzle. I can be mature, responsible, and serious at times, and if necessary. Yet I can also play carefree like a child. I think a sense of humor is important. We all need laughter, it is truly the best medicine.
Often I feel I don't fit in with any particular group or crew. I'm an army of one.

I have recently started ridding myself of material possesions. What we own often ends up owning us. I am currently sending thousands of dollars worth of clothes I have purchased over the years to Africa with an African friend. I want to help some of those less fortunate with my excess. It felt pretty good wearing it after buying it. It feels great giving it away for free!

I'm just me...complex for sure, but worth penetrating the enigma.

-CAUTION- the following is a long list of quotes that describe certain aspects of my personality and ways of thinking. It is too much to read for some people, at least right away. However the quotes are a reflection of thoughts and ideas that I resonate with. Anyway, if you don't feel like reading much... SCROLL DOWN. ;)

When you are courting a nice girl an hour seems like a second. When you sit on a red-hot cinder a second seems like an hour. That's relativity.
-Albert Einstein

At home I am a nice guy: but I don't want the world to know. Humble people, I've found, don't get very far.
-Muhammad Ali

You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you. You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your life.
- Bob Marley

“I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.”
-Marilyn Monroe

“People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that's what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life.

A true soul mate is probably the most important person you'll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soul mate forever? Nah. Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then leave.

A soul mates purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you have to transform your life, then introduce you to your spiritual master...
- Elizabeth Gilbert
(Eat, Pray, Love)

The unreal is more powerful than the real. Because nothing is as perfect as you can imagine it. Because its only intangible ideas, concepts, beliefs, fantasies that last. Stone crumbles. Wood rots. People, well, they die. But things as fragile as a thought, a dream, a legend, they can go on and on. If you can change the way people think. The way they see themselves. The way they see the world. You can change the way people live their lives. That's the only lasting thing you can create.
-Chuck Palahniuk
(Choke)

There is no such thing as weird human being. It's just that some people require more understanding than others.

Whether a man is a criminal or a public servant is purely a matter of perspective.
-Tom Robbins
(Another Roadside Attraction)

If we're ever going to get the world back on a natural footing, back in tune with natural rhythyms, if we're going to nurture the Earth and protect it and have fun with it and learn from it - which is what mothers do with their children - then we've got to put technology (an aggressive masculine system) in its proper place, which is that of a tool to be used sparingly, joyfully, gently and only in the fullest cooperation with nature. Nature must govern technology, not the other way around.
-Tom Robbins
(Even Cowgirls Get The Blues)

When we're incomplete, we're always searching for somebody to complete us. When, after a few years or a few months of a relationship, we find that we're still unfulfilled, we blame our partners and take up with somebody more promising. This can go on and on--series polygamy--until we admit that while a partner can add sweet dimensions to our lives, we, each of us, are responsible for our own fulfillment. Nobody else can provide it for us, and to believe otherwise is to delude ourselves dangerously and to program for eventual failure every relationship we enter

We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love.

Society had a crime problem. It hired cops to attack crime. Now society has a cop problem.

Humanity has advanced, when it has advanced, not because it has been sober, responsible and cautious, but because it has been playful, rebellious, and immature.

A better world has gotta start somewhere. Why not with you and me?

If you believe in peace, act peacefully; if you believe in love, act lovingly; if you believe every which way, then act every which way, that's perfectly valid— but don't go out trying to sell your beliefs to the system. You end up contradicting what you profess to believe in, and you set a bum example. If you want to change the world, change yourself.

Love is the ultimate outlaw. It just won't adhere to any rules. The most any of us can do is to sign on as its accomplice. Instead of vowing to honor and obey, maybe we should swear to aid and abet. That would mean that security is out of the question. The words "make" and "stay" become inappropriate. My love for you has no strings attached. I love you for free.

They glared at her the way any intelligent persons ought to glare when what they need is a smoke, a bite, a cup of coffee, a piece of ass, or a good fast-paced story, and all they're getting is philosophy.
-Tom Robbins
(Still Life With Woodpecker)

Teachers who offer you the ultimate answers do not possess the ultimate answers, for if they did, they would know that the ultimate answers cannot be given, they can only be received

Birth and death were easy. It was life that was hard.

The shaman lives outside the social system, refusing to have any part of it. Yet he seems to connect the populace to the heavens and the earth far more directly than the priest.

You don't have to be a genius to recognize one. If you did, Einstein would never have gotten invited to the White House.

If you fail to pilot your own ship, don't be surprised at what inappropiate port you find yourself docked.
-Tom Robbins
(Jitterbug Perfume)

...she recreated the mountains not as she had originally seen them but as she eventually chose to perceive them, not only a capacity to observe the world but a capacity to alter his or her observation of it---which, in the end, is the capacity to alter the world, itself. Those people who recognise that imagination is reality's master, we call "sages," and those who act upon it, we call "artists."

"Not naive," Conch Shell had corrected him, "He simply has not been taught to fear the things you fear."
-Tom Robbins
(Skinny Legs And All)

"Let me say,
at the risk of seeming ridiculous,
that the true revolutionary
is guided by great feelings of love.”
-Ernesto "Che" Guevara
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am living It. Day by day I am navigating the dizzying array of potential possibilities and informational overload. Life is School in the School of Life! I'm striving to never stop learning. I feel it is important to be helping others along the way as well. And lest I forget to be enjoying myself, I enjoy doing anything fun. And I can find a great many things to be fun, entertaining, enriching, and fascinating.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Hold fast to dreams,
For if dreams die,
Life is a broken-winged bird
That cannot fly.
Hold fast to dreams.
For if dreams go,
Life is a barren field
Covered with snow.
-Langston Hughes


Most things I put my mind into, hobbies such as mountain biking, cruising my skateboard, standup jetskiing, snowboarding, manic optimism, existential angst, hope, despair, being empathetic, understanding, kind and open, being impersonal, distant, self-focused, and aloof, being the contradiction, seeing the contradictions, love, pain, learning, reading, questioning, reasoning, psycho analyzing, thinking too much, being intense, being chill, sleeping, dancing, intuition, being a complicated human, just being real...

It's very hard to keep your spirits up. You've got to keep selling yourself a bill of goods, and some people are better at lying to themselves than others. If you face reality too much, it kills you.
-Woody Allen
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My presence...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I like everything from Distant Relatives to Johnny Cash. Bob Marley to Bob Dylan to Bo Didley to Beats Antique. Michael Jackson to Kid Cudi to Santana to Tool. Lauren Hill to Janice Joplin to Amy Whinehouse to Nina Simone to Regina Spektor to Salt N Peppa. Frank Ocean to Frank Sinatra. Emancipator to Rage Against the Machine to Ojos de Brujo. Citizen Cope to Gogol Bordello to Rusko to Wiz Khalifa. Handsome Boy Modeling School to Gregory Issacs to John Legend to Wax Tailor to Jaco Pastorius to Keller Williams to Sublime to The Roots to Toots and the Maytals and on and on. I could go forever. Mainstream stuff to obscure as hell.

I have far too many favorites to list. I like music with bangin beats the most. Hip Hop. Reggae. Bass Music. Future Music. However I also like a great many different types of music. Jazz. Funk. Soul. Rock. R&B. Pop. Bluegrass. Folk. Acoustic. World. Music from all over the world. I personally may not like the type of music such as country, house, or deathmetal. But I wont judge those who do. We all appreciate different soundwaves and flaves.

I Love to read. Lots of things. But if you actually read instead of scrolled past to get down this far, you would have come to the most obvious conclusion that I am a big fan of the writing of the great Tom Robbins!

I Love Food! Yum
I love nearly all food from the food cart to Filet Mignon. California and The Bay are culinary meccas. We have the best of nearly everything. We have world class fruits, vegetables, meat, dairy, beer, wine, and weed. What more does one need? Seriously.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
After the Basic Needs

Emotions
Nature
Humans
Music
Knowledge
Movement
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
All kinds of things. Seriously.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There is no typical night for me.
If there was it would be like the night these guys had.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TmWLISun9BY&feature=youtube_gdata_player

I'm not an army of one
More like a one man wolf pack
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'll admit anything to the right people, but nothing to all of you that I haven't already.

oh also Okc seems like a place where I cultivate endless amounts of virtual friendships. Which is ok...
However I think you can learn infinitely more about a person from 5 minutes face to face with them, than you can from 5 years worth of online chatting...
I am not scared of meeting the real you...
You should message me if
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I messaged you.
And/Or
If you think we would get along.
If you feel like it.
If you want new friends.
Because I want new friends.
Or just because...

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